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Awww~!
You're a really good friend...
Some girls your age go through these... phases. She wants to be... HOT! She wants guys to like her, so she thinks that if she does anything a guy wants with him, she's easy!
People like her end up on the street corner, either prosituting or begging for food or money. You're a really good friend for being concerned. Some people would just leave this alone and you didn't. That's a very good sign.
Tell her that you don't think what she's doing is right and what she does in high school reflects off the whole rest of her life. If she has sex in 8th-9th grade, chances are she's going to get pregnant and be known as a slut. Tell her you would HATE to see her like that so you thought you would want to catch it before it got too big. You know?
Tell her she's NOT a slut but if she keeps trying to get popular in that kind of way, people will THINK she is. You don't want your friend to be like that. She would be depressed all the time and stuff.
Tell her how you feel about the whole situation. Tell her (like you told everyone here on Advicenators) that you miss the OLD HER! You want your "FRIEND" back! And this is NOT your friend. This isn't the same one who talked to you and made you feel better when you were sad.
Tell her that! Don't be scared for her to be mad at you. If she does get mad at you, she'll learn from her mistake later on. And besides, it's HER loss... NOT YOURS. If there were more people like you in the world, there would be NO KILLING, RAPING, MURDERING, STRANGLING, OR PROSTITUTION. And you are very generous. Just know that you know what could happen and stick with it!
I'm sorry this is so long! :-( But, hey! I have a LOT to say! :-)
Remember, I'm here for you if you want to talk or something. My email address is x_pink_x109@yahoo.com if you want to email me there. Or you can drop one in my inbox! Either one... OR BOTH! LOL.
DON'T GIVE UP TRYING!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla
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