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Q: my life is just screwed up right now with guys i fall to easily for them and then i just get hurt at the end how will you know when you have found the one? how could you trust guys when so many has hurt you in the past most of them try to sweet talk you but how do you know if what they are really saying is coming from their heart?
i need as much as advice you guys could give me ♥
You know when you have found the right guy when he treats you with respect and WANTS to stay with you as long as possible. Girls are more in for a relationship while SOME guys, on the other hand, just want to get into your pants and then, throw you away to the side.

It's O.K. if you don't find the right guy right away. It takes a lot of time.

Nice guys are very rare and hard to find but there is someone out there looking for you. ;-)

And you are SURE to find him soon.

The reason why you fall too easily for them is because they are nice to you in the beginning but you have to know that you can't trust EVERYOINE you meet, right off the bat.

It takes some time. Once you get to KNOW that person, you start to know how he is and what he does and then, it's probably a little safer for you to trust people.

Have you ever heard the song, "Love Your Baby Girl" by Sugarland. She stated in that song, "Everybody's your friend. You can never be sure." That's why you're getting hurt because you trust the guys too fast.

Let them get to know you a little better and you ned to get to know them a little better.

Also, play hard-to-get. Guys love it! They go CRAZY!

My point is you shouldn't go for them just because they're cute because most hot guys are players because girls are all over them and it's hard forhim to say "No." Just watch out and BE CAREFUL. Guys are hard to understand. I'm the same way as you are. I see a hot guy and I fall inlove... I don't even know him! Just be careful with guys and don't trust right away.

You know where I am if you need advice or want to talk. Also, you can email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?

Best of luck! ♥

Hope I helped! ♥

♥ Kayla ♥

thank you soooo much

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