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ok here is the thing....
i went to my boyfriends house the other night and did somethings i have never done before and then he went and told his sister(my best friend) and then broke up with me....
what can i do to feel better about this and to get him not to be mad at me and to keep him talkin to me.....
i really like this guy alot........
so dont tell me to quit talkin to him
please and thank you.....
~kashia
:( i wish i could die

First of all, cheer up. Do some things for you, go shopping, go out with friends, watch chick flicks. Fun stuff like that. :) No guy is worth falling into serious depression over.
Then, start thinking about why your boyfriend might have broken up with you. Maybe he was embarassed about what you two had done, and didn't know how he was going to face it? Or felt that he'd made a mistake, and didn't think he was ready yet, and thought that you might come to expect it? Or possibly his sister had some influence in his decision, even if she's your best friend, siblings can be very protective of eachother.
Talk to your guy, and see what happened. Assure him that you like him because of who he is, and not what you do together. Make sure you know where his boundaries are, and make sure he knows yours.
If he still doesn't want to be together, however hard it may seem, move on. Don't dwell on it too much, because if it doesn't work it's not meant to be, and you don't want to miss seeing that person that's absolutely right for you.
Cheer up soon :)
Nevaeh

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(Rating: 5) good advice.thanx


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