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Okay well laast week or so I was with a friend and she took me out iwth 2 of her friends andways long story short we were drinking and I ended up sleeping with this guy...I completly regret it now and I knw it was wrong that's not why I'm here....what are teh statistics and stuff on pulling out. And if we did it twice is tehre a even greater preganancy chance? Also I have a boyfriend and I think I lov ehim and I've never been in love before and I want him to know so bad but I just can't bring myself to tell him cuase I don't want to loose him....any help would be so apreciated....thanx
HeY hUN! well to answer your question:
pulling out (a.k.a., withdrawal) is not the most reliable or forgiving form of contraception. and you said you had sex twice... thats even riskier... because re-inserting your penis after you've ejaculated (outside the vagina) is not safe either. Within the first few hours after ejaculation, there is usually some sperm left in the urethra. The amount left behind is nowhere near the amount of sperm in the typical ejaculate, but it still presents a risk.
Statistics:
Estimated failure rate for typical use (meaning you're not totally consistent) is around 20 percent. When practiced perfectly, some researchers estimate the failure rate to be around 5 percent. This means 5 to 20 women out of every 100 who use withdrawal as their contraceptive method get pregnant.
Boyfriend:
From my point of view... cheaters never win... i recently cheated on a boyfriend... :( and without me even telling him... he found out in 3 days! and the story was totally different! word spreads fast! so tell him... it may not be the easiest thing... and u may loose your man, but it will pay to be honest about it! your honesty could score you some points, because i'm sure he'd rather hear about it from you first... then 50 people at school!
good luck hUn! all the best! i hope i help! if you need more advice drop one in my bOx!
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(Rating: 5) wow thatw as teh most helpful advice so far thanx sooo much...and yah ur right he shoudl likly find out...