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Q: alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake??
Oh my gosh!
I don't mean to be blunt but... YEAH! You DID make a mistake.

1. He's breaking the law for hitting you... and he did it FOUR TIMES! That's not right and for all you know, he could be a serial rapist or something.

2. He cheated on you after you had just regained your trust for him. He diid all that with another girl... NO WAY!

3. He flirts with people IN FRONT OF YOU! If a guy really loves his girl, he LOVES her, not LEAVES her every 5 minutes to go with another chick.

He's not worth it and you will get hurt again. Face it! He's a ladies man and he doesn't have self control. If he sees a "hot" girl, he shoots off and then, after he kisses her a few times, he comes back to you when he has no one else. He's just using you.
Honey, you are WAY better than he is and you know what's right but right now, what you're doing isn't right.

You may THINK you love him but he's just going to keep doing what he's doing...
\He's never going to change for ANYONE! That's a TYPICAL man!

If you love him and you think you can trust him again, by all means go for it! But I think you might get hurt and I don't like to see that happen to anyone. I have been hurt and I DO NOT like how it feels and trust me... I KNOW how it feels.

Stay strong and don't let him push you around. Don't let him LOOK at chicks, THINK about chicks, and especially... NO PLAYING AROUND with chicks. If he loves you, he'll only do those things with you! :-)

Give him one more chance and see how he does. If he does O.K, than, he's alright but if he EVER hits you again, tell the police and he'll get put in jail and YOU can get a restraining order against him. Also, you can press charges and sue him. You have the power to do that and make sure you do.

Don't be scared of him!

You know where I am if you need me.
Email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?

Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla ♥

yess uv helped a lot thnx

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