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So, my guy and I went ring shopping today and picked out rings.
The problem is gonna be my mom. He gave me an antique ring on valentine's day almost two years ago, and I've been wearing that one, but we picked one that will be sized to fit my left ring finger. Basically, we are engaged, but we're keeping it quiet until about halfway through college, when it'll be more acceptable to my parents.
This ring kind of looks like an engagement ring, but it's not a diamond. That's the only thing, though it is a single stone, which is symbolic enough. My mom is extremely against my getting married young (we're planning to get married in four or five years, so there's no rush at all, but my mom wouldn't understand that). I'm 17 and he's 19. I'll be 18 in October. Anyway, my mom's gonna freak out when she sees the ring on that finger, and essentially a wedding band on his.
What do I say to her?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down for stupidity.
Thanks in advance. =)

well ytou shouild tell your mom that you and your "fiance" were talking and that you guys shouild get married..but you need to tell her that your going to finish school and that you will get married when the time is right..its pretty sad that your mom will be pissed that you find your true love..and your "fiance".. well you shouold finish college first and then do what you gotta do with your "fiance"..and your mom shouild suport you 100%
but you no that your mom is proably going to be so pissed that your making a decison to get married..you shouildnt wear the ring around her right now..unless your ready to tell her what it means!! that your planning to get married a couple of years from now..but you just finish college and then think about marriage.. but you do what you feel is right..and try to find a good way to tell your mom..
hope i helped..
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