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I'm an 29 year old guy.I'll always do my best to give well considered and sincere advice - give me your best shot. P.S. Don't be afraid to ask me private questions, I rarely spend a lot of time answering non-private questions.
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Ok well the guy I kinda like I just found out has a girlfriend aww i know im sad... I cant get him out of mind, i have a myspace and hes one of my friends on it cause we go to school together and stuff i mean i didnt just meat him or anything and I use to like always look at his sight and leave him friendly comments and stuff but now the picture thats his main is of him and his girfriend kissing... I respect him and respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and all that cause were good friends and Im happy for him i just want to try to think of him as a really good friend and not get sad when i see thier picture... any advide please help...
signed I respect the man
To start, just because he has a girlfriend now, it doesn't mean he'll always have one. An age would have been useful, especially if there's an age gap between you and the guy.
I don't know how close a friend you are of his, so it's difficult to answer your question, but I'll give you something a little more general...
It seems pretty clear that you wanted to be this guy's girlfriend, but you were never close enough, or you didn't have the courage to ask him out. You might get a chance in a while, but let's focus on now.
You need to get over him, right? Well why did you like him in the first place? Is it so bad only being his friend? If you find yourself resenting his girlfriend, then try and find a chance to meet her. She might turn out to be really nice, and then you won't feel as bad. If she turns out to be really mean then you have motivation to steal him away from her with your innocent charm 0=) and you can hate her in the meantime.
Other than that, find something to launch yourself into. Physical exercise is a pretty good way to forget about things - do you own a bike? If you're not so up on your subjects at school, read something challenging.
If you want to ask some more specific questions, I'll be happy to answer them, but I'll leave it at that for the moment.
-K
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You should fish around, there are plenty of guys around that would make you laugh. As for the being able to tell him anything... you can still do that. If he stops listening to you then more fool him. There are more good guys out there, but they might be hard to find. Often enough you'll find that the ones who don't talk much can be the most wonderful ones not only to listen to you, but will respond positively to having somebody to talk to.
(Rating: 5) im 15 and so is he and we had classes together and i just love the way he made me laugh and i could tell him tell him anything i mean i dont think he knows it but i can he was like one of the first ppl i told things to and i dont have many guys whom i am close with and i already do sports and stuff...well anyways thanks...