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ok well i have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart and then i have this guy friend that i like ONLY as a friend but see the thing is HE LOVES ME and he is always telling that he wishes i was with him and that he would treat me right. i know he would but he isnt my type of guy. his looks arent the best and i know looks arent everything because he is a great guy but i just cant see myself with him. i have tryed tellign him but it is still the samething . he always says o i wish i was ur boyfriend i know i would treat you right. can someone plz help me!! sometimes he makes me feel like i am a bad person and make me hate myself because i cant choice the right guy to go out with.:'( (link)
If he really was a great guy, he'd accept the fact that you don't feel the same way.

This guy sounds like he is definitely becoming a problem. Don't worry about whether-or-not you made the right decision in choosing a guy, you definitely did. If he really valued your friendship, he would accept that you don't have feelings for him. Not only did you tell him you didn't feel the same way, but you're in a relationship.

I'm afraid you're going to have to be harsh with him. If you're worried about hurting his feelings, take into account that he's not even considering yours right now. All of this is just to get what he wants, he's ignoring the fact that you're already in a happy relationship.


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thanks so much! i will try it.




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