Four years ago I dated a really cool guy, he was all over me calling and going out for 4 months, then he just didn't show up for dinner one nite and we only spoke once briefly after that, he said he didn't need anyone worried about him. (He's a serious workaholic) but over the years i've run into him at a couple parties of mutual friends and just two weeks ago we ended up hanging out and i've been seeing him again since last, last sunday. He's being a doll and has picked up right where we left off! I'm pretty sure that, that is just his style - dates for 4-6 months then it's adios. I'm having fun, but trying to keep a step back, because it's inevitable that the same thing is going to happen. Do I just have fun for however long it lasts?
You're having fun. So what? There is nothing wrong with that. Besides, that's what he's doing too, isn't it? Having fun?
Haha! Got you there, didn't I? :) I think that the reason you are asking, is maybe because you are feeling a little guilty. Like you are using him or something. You're not. You're just two adults...having fun together. It's all right. You would only be using him if you were the only one having fun and he was clearly interested in something more.
And...probably...he's not. I have a theory. If a man stands you up once, he'll do it again. So...I commend thee for keeping him at arms length. Very wise dearie ;)
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thanks for the insight - you're good!
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