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Hi, I am asking you 1-Because your a girl (no offense if that sounds mean at all) 2-Because your only a year older than me so I think you might be able to relate and 3-Because I've seen some of your advice and it's awsome.

Okay here's the deal:

I am a 14/m.I have liked a girl...her name is Jackie...for a very very long time. The problem is the one time I actually came out and said I liked her, things got extremely akward between us. I finally had to resort to lying(Yea, it was that bad) I told her that I was over her and that things were cool between us. However, I still REALLY like her. She is like my dream girl: GOREGOUS, funny, smart, awsome personality, everything a guy could ask for.

I get out of school on the 18th of May. Should I risk telling her before then or hang-on a while so when I do tell her things arent akward? I am in a tight spot here. I really hope you can help, but if you can't just say so please.

Thanks a ton,
Jeff

Hey sweetie. Alright, 1. No I didnt take it as offense lol I dont get mad easily lol. 2. You seem like a sweetheart. 3. I will totally try helping you!!

Alright.. here we go! lol.

You should tell her how you feel again and just tell her something like this...

Either in an email, note, on the phone, AIM/AOL, face - to - face..

"Jackie, You're every guys dream, everything about you I love.. And I know I told you once before that I like you, and then things got awkward between us.. and I hated it. So, I told you I didn't like you, so things could get back to how it was. But, truthfully, I don't want to hold this in anymore, I do like you and I always have, you're just amazing, you're gorgeous, funny, smart, awsome personality, everything a guy could ask for. And, I'm taking a chance here, maybe you do like me and we could start something and maybe you dont like me. If you don't like me, then I'll accept it and we'll move on from there and go back to how we were, but if you do like me, then you've just made me the happiest person..."

Just kind of go from there and you don't have to say exactly what I said.. but I'm giving you ideas and things to say. You seem like you know what you would want to say to her.. so I'm just trying to help you out. If you still need help, just post another comment in my inbox or leave your screen name or something. Because I really want to know where this goes.. I hope everything goes well for you.. you seem so sweet!!

xoxo Kourtney

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(Rating: 5) Thanks a ton...lol I wasnt sure if you'd take that in a bad way :) Anyway thanks a ton. I really like this girl but as you may know, some stuff is hard to put into words. If you wanna talk to me my screenname on aim is GettinThere000 my email is minimason761@yahoo.com Ill talk to you later...thanks again.


Jeff
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