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Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.

I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.

I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.

I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.

For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)

Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.

advice

Hey im getting into alot of fights with my really good friend on the internet and 1 day my mom read our confersation and now she never aloud over at my house again and at school we hang out alot and we havent got in a fight yet and i realyy want to ask my mom if she could come over but im to scared shell yell at me!! what should i do??

Hey! I'm very sorry about your mom's reaction about that fight with your friend. But keep in mind, she shouldn't read your conversations on AIM because that's too personal for anyone else to see besides you.

Moving on, you need to talk to her. Don't even worry about her yelling at you, if you want to get things cleared up, talking is the most effective way. It's important that you stay calm, even if she does start to raise her voice at you. The truth is she does have a reason for doing this. In this case, I think she wants to protect you. But I think she needs to let you take control of the situation. You're probably old enough that you should be able to deal with whatever comes you way. Such as the highschool drama, and the kids. You need to defend yourself rather than having somebody else defend you. And the more you do this the more you'll be stronger. I think your mom has also fought with her friends a couple times in her life.

If you agree, you should tell her that. But do it gently and let her talk. You could say "Mom, I'd really wish you'd reconsider having ______ over. Because, she is my friend but we just had a disagreement. And I'm sure you've had fights with your friends before. I want to tryand fix things, but I need you to let me do that. I want to be able to handle it myself and I'll talk to her about what she said. She probably didn't even mean what she said, she just said that because she was mad at the time. But we can probably get through this. And if we do, I hope that she can come over again because she's too good of a friend to lose."

That will get her attention. Let her say what she has to say about it. And hopefully it will work and things will get figured out! Let me know if you need anything else hun!

Love,
Mandee

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(Rating: 2) i know she shouldnt be reading my confersations but she was on the computer and Sam starting saying all this S*** and it popped up and u kno my mom started talking to me and said that she cant come over well thanks alot ur a HUGE HELP

p.s sorry 4 giving you a 2 but i acedentaly pressed it and i meant to give u a 5!*!

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