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Hi, let me start by saying I'm young. 13f and my best friend died. Her brother was hurt really bad and i feel like it was my fault, cuz they were on their way to pic me up when a drunk driver ran into them. My friend died instantly and her brother is expected to die in the next seven-twelve days. I want to say something to him, but I don't know what and if I don't hurry, it might be too late. You can e-mail me at prettymoonbug@hotmail.com

I'm very sorry :(

While I understand that you might blame yourself, please don't. This is not your fault. If anyone is responsible, it's the person who decided to drive while they were intoxicated. It's an unfortunate, tragic accident. Such things happen in life. Again, I'm really sorry. But try to recognize the situation for what it is. An accident.

If you feel like you should talk to him, then do. You might continue to feel guilty, or regret not doing so in the future. As for what to say...All I can tell you is to say what is on your mind. Everything. Get it all out. Don't hold back, you don't want to regret what you DIDN'T say in the future.

I do not know you, and I don't know if you believe in a higher power, but my thoughts and prayers are with you. And I wish you and your friend's family the very best. Please feel free to leave a message for me in my inbox if you need someone to listen.

Until then...Blessings.

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(Rating: 5) Thnx:)


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