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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it
Yea I do that sometimes..the best way to get over it is to find your best qualities like your hair or your teeth or smile or something and perfect it. then you have something to be confident in. but you should also look within because you probably have something thoes models dont, you may be creative, sensitive, a good friend, caring, awesome personality etc. and maybe you have to work to be " beautiful " but what does that mean? not everybody can be a size zero and have perfect hair and perfect smile etc. they have flaws too..but it would be better to be yourself, cuz you shouldnt change you because everyone thinks that thoes models are " beautiful " whos to judge? nobodys perfect, everybody has flaws even if they are hard to see, they might be really pertty and flawless on the outside but on the inside have insecurities and have doubts and be self centered etc, and somebody may weigh 350 pounds and not look so " pretty " but on the inside they are a wonderful person and they know just how to make you smile when your having a bad day, so dont change yourself to be like them, just be youself, that doesnt mean you dont have to or have to change your hair color or the makeup you use or your hairstyle etc, just dont change the way you are to be the way they are, cuz thats not cool...so just consentrate on your good qualitites, hair, makeup, face, smile, teeth, acessories, clothes, shoes etc, pick your best one and perfect it. Dont look in the mirror as much, and when you do dont look in the mirror for long periods of time just trying to pick out all your flaws..your beautiful inside and out, dont let anybody tell you different....hope i helped...mauh!
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thanks.. that was sweet
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