about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

Ok, I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months. I love him to death. and he's one of my best friends. I only knew him 2 weeks when he moved to Indiana. I live in New York. It's long distance, but we've managed without a single thought.

I started talking to a guy who lives in NYC. Hes madd funny, and sweet and he likes me. I'm starting to like him too. I actually told him I loved him, and we have so much fun talking.

I want to meet him, and I want to tell my bf. But i dont want things to end with either one of them. I want to be more than friends wit the NYC guy.

I dont know what to do. Im 15, and obviously a girl. They are the same age.

and I dont see my bf at all. i did once last year, and if it matters we had sex....

PLEASE help...

Hey Honey!

The thing about long distance relationships is the matter of how you would handle it. You really, really have to be strong, independent and dedicated to keep the relationship going. However, you do want to consider what makes you happy, what would be easier for you, and what would be more realistic. Asking yourself these question might confuse you, because you think you don't know what to do. But you'll figure it out in time.

You know you can't have both guys. And you know that would be disloyal to your boyfriend, and he would be mad. So, why put yourself through this? It's not likely that he'll be okay with you having a friend with benefits when he is your boyfriend.

What you should consider is finding out which guy you want. Get to know them both, even if you think you already know them well. Continue talking to that NYC guy, but don't take it to the next step yet. Find out about him, what his favorites are, what he likes doing. Then meet him and hang out with him just as friends. Call your boyfriend..maybe see him on the weekend. This will be hard, and you'll be stressed out. But you need to figure this one out by yourself. I can't give you answers and tell you who to choose because I don't know these guys. I don't even know you. And it wouldn't be fair to you for me to tell you who you should date without knowing anything about you or them. Plus, it's a decision only you can make. =P

But here's what I will do, I'll tell you about my long distance relationship now. Maybe it'll help you out a bit.

Travis and I have been together for about four years now. Recently, I moved to Miami to get a good job and career and just wanted to because this was where I belonged. And my boyfriend stayed in my home state. Our relationship started out good. I flew in to see him on weekends. It got very expensive, but it was worth it. And in the summer he lived with me. So, we were still together somewhat. But currently, we lost touch. And I was confused because I didn't even know if we were still together. So it was about two months and just about a week ago I called him for the first time in those two months. I missed him so much I made myself throw up. Talking to him calmed me down and we talked about our relationship. It was definitely crashing, but we're working on improvement right now. We are still together, and I'm seeing him this weekend. I can't wait! Haha.

All I want to let you know is that, it's an emotional roller coaster. It depends on how much you love the guy and how much your relationship can hold. Since you like this other guy, that makes me question if you're in love with your boyfriend. I think you are, but being in love with two people isn't acceptable, meaning that it can happen, but because it's so rare people won't understand it. Find out what you want in a relationship. And don't hold on to something thats not there. If you want someone there with you and around you, maybe consider going out with the guy from NYC because he's probably closer. But if you think the love you and boyfriend have is able to last, then stick by him. One thing is that you'll have to give up on somebody. And I know that's hard, but it's a part of life.

I'm so sorry this wasn't what you wanted to hear. I just really believe you can do this, and that you need to do this for yourself since you know them both and the people on Advicenators dont. Good luck with whoever you decide!

Love ya!
Mandee

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(Rating: 5) OMG! thanx for the help. it actually made me cry lol. I'm going with NYC. we seem better... but now i have to get the nerve to dump him... thanx hun!
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