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I am 21 and my fiancee is 25.I am a female. My fiancee and I have been together going on eight years in July 2005. There is not enough love making and not hardly enough sugary stuff.(kissing, hugging, sweet nothings) He seems to be tired all the time! Well now I'm tired. Am I being to demanding? What should I do to let him know I need romance without offending him?
Go to the bookstore and look for books written by John Gray, Ph.D. You've probably heard of him, he wrote the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." While that is a really great book, he's also wrote a lot of other books, some of them specifically discussing sexual intimacy. I trust him because he's a very smart man :)
And, please don't feel weird about buying self-help books. You and your fiancee have been together for a long time, and this type of problem is normal. Happens to everyone. (No, you're not being too demanding either.)
Best of luck ;)
(I just read my answer and it sounds like I didn't answer your question. My point was, Dr. Gray will tell you the best way to state your request without offending your fiancee. After all, he is a man, and I'm sure he's heard it too :P)
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Thank you so much for the wealth of information you have shared with me. I will surely go to B&N tomorrow and check it out!
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