I have a friend that consistently acts highly interested in everything I do and offers help that I don't really need. He extends invitations for me to participate in events he will be participating in. He seems excited to see me and strikes up conversation over redundant things. Recently I called him to take him up on an offer he made, he acted distant, cold and brief and said he would call back and didn't. What is going on? Is he interested, flaky, did I misinterpret his intentions, should I just brush him off now?
I tend to believe that when a man acts in an inconsistent manner, it's the equivalent of him saying, "I like you, I just don't like you enough." But, that is just my experience, I could be wrong.
I highly recommend, "He's Just Not That Into You," by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. It might not change your life, but you won't find yourself over-analyzing your relationships nearly as often.
Adieu ;)
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You are right, I am over-analytical. I found out he is married and is tempted but afraid to take a risk.
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