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Q: Yesterday I saw my friend smoking, so today I hoped to stop her from getting addicted or doing it again. I asked her if she tried smoking yesterday (rumours were going round she had too) and she acted as if it was a joke, said no and kept trying to change the conversation. I know she has told other friends. However, she does know I am strongly against smoking and she has in the past told me that she was too. How will I get her to terms with what she has done and stop her from ever doing it again? She seems to ruin her life at any opportunity- in the past she has been a cutter, anorexic and bullimic. Please help!
My friend was/is like that. She is copping..sort of anyways.. I would just talk to her and make her relize how much you want her to stop. I actually gave up hope for this on my friend. I spent a year and half on it. Nothing i got out of it. You just need to tell her how you feel about it. And I told my friend if you love and respect me you wont smoke around me. And s/he doesnt. So you just need to set boundaries and talk to her but before you do bring any of this just really positively make sure she is smoking. ANd just be like i need to talk to you and i need the blunt truth. I heard you were smoking now before you say anything i want you to know i care and i dont want antyhing to happaned to you-trix

Thanks- I'll put you as one of my favourite columnists. Zoin.

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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