Sorry for the lengthiness ahead of time.
OK here goes, I am a 16 year old curious teenage girl. I have recently gotten a boyfriend, and this is the first time since about beginning of september. However, I have two other infatuations. And I think about them on a regular basis.
So now I will explain in a little more detail about them:
My boyfriend, I just met him at a concert on January 29th. He is a total sweetheart and a complete cutie.
One of the other guys, I have been talking to him regularly and we flirt which is no biggie, however we do talk about hanging out and kissing or making out on a frequent basis as well. however, that is not just recent I was doing that long before I even met my boyfriend.
The second guy, I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since about the end of October, however I havn't since I got with my boyfriend, but I have also failed to tell him about my boyfriend. Except I don't want him to be devastated because I am dating someone else, he is the last person in the world that I want upset or mad at me. He is my best friend, my savior when I need it. However, we weren't in a relationship, didn't have labels, or any form of ties keeping us together. Except I am now seeing that I think I developed real, raw, strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt anyone. If you could help me out I would appreciate it so so much.
Thanks in advance for anyone who helps or even tries to. Because I know if I can get through this I can work through other problems that I have. So thanks again.
-Rachael
Hey Rachael! I think you need to come clean and tell them. If you don't want to openly come out and tell them, maybe try giving them a scenerio. Try saying something like "what would you do if i would get a boyfriend" or something similar to that. After you ask for their opinion, break the news to them gently. Let me know how everything turns out! Good luck! Hope my advice helps!
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Thanks so much I will let you know what happens.
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