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Okay well im a 16*f.. well okay the other day i went to my sisters house.. well my ex boyfriend tony lives wit her and like well since he's got out of jail he's been tryin to get wit me..and like a month ago he grabbed me off the side walk and yelled at me and called me an ignorant bitch for not goin wit him.. well yesterday i was sleepin and he got on top of my back and kept askin me out i said no..cause first off i dont care for him the same way and i have a boyfriend.. well he pushed me up against the wall and yelled at me and hit me twice in my back really hard and its bruised.. im like half his weight and like half his height i know its not right and i told my bf and he was so upset.. i went to the doctor and i have a bruised spine.. and i dont know what to do with this guy im scared if i press charges he'll come after me and hurt me when he gets out..please give me advice.. sorry long..~*DEZ*~
The first thing that you need to do is tell your parents about this. Ask your parents to contact a lawyer. Ask the lawyer to go with you and your parents (if you are able to get a lawyer) to the police station. Once there file charges on this nut for assault and request a restraining order. They will more than likely want to take photos of the brusing and request information from your doctor as to the damage and treatment from what the nut did to you. The reason that I suggest you getting a lawyer is you might have to go to trial against this guy and it is a good idea to have someone who can stand up for your rights and make sure that this guy gets the punishment and help that he needs. Also, a lawyer will help you get the restraining order. With a restraining order, he should not be able to get within 500-1,000 (depends on your state's laws as to the restrictions that this will place and the ease of obtaining it) feet of you or your house upon his release. If he tries to hurt you again upon his release and you have a restraining order, the amount of time he will be facing is much greater because he not only broke a court order but he will also be considered a repeat offender. Talk to your parents. Have this guy arrested. You will not be safe until you do. Take care of yourself dear and contact me anytime if you need help. Best Wishes!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much.. that helps alot and do so.. i told my mom.. and thats why she took me to the doctor.. but thank you so much for the advice..ThugGirl041790