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okay theres this reallllly hott guy that i ride with to school EVERYDAY!!! hes gonna be 19 in April and im gonna 16 in September! yesterday we kept talking the whole way to school. today too. well i used to like him earlier in the year.. and now i fell back in love with him. he said he likes me but right now im a lil too young. but all day i had a great feeling something good was gonna happen! but nothing yet. and we kept telling eachother things that we did with other guys (me) and girls (him). he did a few things but i didnt do anything. he asked me y and i told him i wasnt ready. But then i was talkin to my oler sister last night.. and she told me that i should tell him i want to have sex with him. idk if i should or not. I mean.. he said he wants a girl who would "put out" a little every now and then. I would.
I no we're gonna be spending a lot of time together because today and yesterday he asked me since i like working on cars and shit like that if id like to help him build his racer.. that way we can bond and "get to no eachother" more. i told him i would. Like we seriously talk all the time. Plus hes my neighbor. -n- he comes over all the time. Also he said he wants a girl like me who knows mostly everything about him. Plus like i said before. One that puts out a little! He knows i would. I like him ALOT!!!! id do anything for him. But should i talk to him about it? and like the way he feels. and tell him the way i feel about him?
please help me...!!!!
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Happy yet confused!!!
I really think that if he believes you too young to have a relationship with, your having sex with him will not change that. Unless you want him to sleep with you then not commit to a relationship, I would avoid anything sexual with this guy. You should have a real, founded relationship, love and a future together before sex comes into the picture (remember babies, STDs, broken hearts). You deserve more than to possibly end up a single 16 year old mother, bemoaning your fate because some jerk used you and left you. Tell him how you feel and let it sit for a while. You need to let him make the decision about a relationship on his own (without the promise of sex) so that you know that it is something that he WANTS and not something that interests him (like sex). Get to know him better and let him get to know you better. Share things with eachother, do things with eachother. I know that you said that you two already know a great deal about eachother but knowing more wont hurt. All great relationships start out as friendship. So, tell him how you feel and leave it at that. Let him decide where he wants this to go. If you two were meant to be together it will work out. Keep your head up. Best Wishes! P.S. A real man will never pressure you for sex or for anything that you dont want to give (this is in reference to life not this one particular guy) so keep that in mind. You deserve to be loved, respected and cherished.
(Rating: 4) i no he wont hurt me. I've known him since we were little. sex doesnt interest him. me either. it's just something that would be fun to do. or even try.