about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

ok to understand my question here is what happened before...Sorry it is long!!!

my friend kristina is dating this guy named richard. Well they dated for about 1 year before breaking up because he is constantly a jerk to her. He was possesive and always jealous. When she would talk to her friends while talking to him he would flip out and he would flip out if she talked to other guys. Well, many times before she wanted to break up with him but he would always say he loved her so much and that he would change but he never did. Even her parents hated himZ Well, right before school started he wanted to get back together with her. (**Me and Kristina talked every day**)She wasnt sure if she should because of how he used to treat her. I kept telling her not to because she would only get hurt again. Well, she is dating him now and she totally changed. SHe never talks to me or her best friend Kayliee anymore. We both said that if she keeps this up that when she needs we might not be there anymore. What can I do to make her see what is going on and that he is a jerk without hurting her feelings or anything.

Kristina is probably in a state of confusion. This guy she is dating says he loves her so much, but at that same time he is the one who is making her change and isolating her from everyone, right? Some guys take the relationship too far. You and I both understand that if Kristina has changed dramatically and only talks to her boyfriend she needs to get out of this relationship right away.


There is no way to break the news easily to her, it will hurt her feelings and might even offend her if you talk badly about this guy. But you should, because she needs to hear it from you since you are a good friend to her. She probably already knows that she is being pushed around, so that probably will not be new to her. The reason she is staying with him? She's scared. That is most likely why she is with him and not leaving. Tell her how she changed..before and afters. Example: How she talked to you everyday and now she questions if she should even talk to you because she might get in trouble. I think that you both should still remain there for her. Simply because she is your friend but she is going through a hard time right now. Be there when she needs you. If she keeps dating him she will lose her friends, and if she finally got over him and moved on, could you imagine what it would be like without any friends to come back to? I know this might be hard for you to understand, but put yourself in her position. She will be so thankful you have stayed by her side through the rought times. That is, afterall, what friends are for.


I have been through what she has. So, I do know how hard it is to break away from someone so demanding as he is. It really takes a lot of work, and you have to be strong. I knew that it was wrong of me to stay with the guy I was with who was abusive. I still stayed out of fear. It took me a year to realize that you need to make yourself happy and put yourself first in times like these. Maybe if you let her know that she needs to do this for herself. She wouldn't want to live in fear for the rest of her life or be pushed down by somebody else telling her what she can and can not do. She will come through though, I did and I know that she can too if she really understands how much pain he causes her. He is saying he loves her and that he will change, but some guys never do change. He is very demanding and he should not confuse her by saying he loves her when he won't change for her. It is all a bunch of lies. If she wants to she can stay single and if he does change he can prove it to her at a later time.


You are a very good friend, and I'm sure she will be so lucky to have you there for her. You are doing the right thing by talking to her about it. But she might not listen, and you need to understand that she needs time to figure things out for herself. Sometimes the only way of getting through this is by experincing it for yourself, and that's what helped me. So let her go for a little, if it comes down to that. If she is a smart girl she will get herself out of this. If time passes and she still does not get the message you need to contact somebody who will help her. If you're still in highschool, teachers can help you, they learn how to get students help. So that mgiht be an idea. It's not safe...so please do whatever you can. You know she needs help and you're making an effort. That is really nice! Keep trying and stay sweet!
Love,
Mandee

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(Rating: 5) thnaks! you helped tons!!
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