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my best friends mom is realy rude. Liek we were supposed to meet up w.her @ the mall bc we were shopping and she was @ the movies. She called and left a message on my phone since my friends was dead to say she'd call us @ a quarter to six because the movie started @ 4..by the time we got the message it was past 4 so we didn't call bak. @ 6 we were heading to the front of the mall to get picked up and she called and was being really rude to me and was like "I want you guys at the front of the mall NOW" and stuff and made up something about my friend was supposed to call her @ 5 oclock..but the message said 6!! i erased it too..so we didn't have proof..and like she constantly argues w.my firned and her sister when i'm in the car or @ their house and shes nice sometimes but other times shes just so rude and i don't feel welcome and we were watching a movie that i brought over and her mom started it and wouldn't rewind it so we didn't get to see the begingin! and it was MY MOVIE! i wanted ot leave her house..but anyways my question is..i wanna go places w.my friend and go to her house and have her come over mine..but i don't wanna ride in the car w.her mom or go over her house..so what can i do! my parents won't drive both ways and i can't ALWAYS have her coming over my house and making excuses not to go over hers..

SORRY THIS IS SO LONG! i'll rate yall 5's just for reading it

ps- whenever i'm riding in the car w.them either going somewhere or coming back...her mom always makes me feel like i'm troubling her

tell your friend that you like being her friend, but her mom is driving you crazy! let her know you are not trying to be rude. you wanna spend time with her, but you cant deal with her moms stank attitude. ask her to talk to her mom, and let her mom know that her friends are avoiding hanging out with her daughter at the house because they think shes mean, cuz shes always yelling and it makes them feel unwanted and nervous. maybe your friends mom doesnt know that you or her other friends feel threatened by her, so she should tell her mom about it.

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(Rating: 5) ahhh i could never talk to her mom..but i'll talk to my friend! thanx for the advice!

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