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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".
I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?
Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.
Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.
So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.
what do you think?
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Shit, it's like listening to myself think when reading this. A lot of my friends are in the same position. They'll complain about mind games their boyfriends will play, but they can't leave them because they "love" them. I'm sure it has something to do with a fear of change in them or something.
It's easy to say that there is someone for everyone, but where's the proof? Honestly? There's no guarantee. No definite way it's going to happen, so how do we know it will ever happen? We don't. Which is why I think you should make better use of your time. I'm not saying give up on the dating scene altogether, just don't try as hard. Try to find some other passion, besides romance. From what I've seen, romance happens when you least expect it, most of the time when your not looking for it.
Wait, I forgot, don't think for a second it's all about physical appearance (unless your a 13 year old girl obsessing over Brad Pitt). Around here, I've seen gorgeous girls with these guys that look like they live under a bridge. A lot of girls your age have probably grown out of the "He has to be hot" phase and have grown more realistic. Besides, you never want a relationship to be based on looks. At least not if you're wanting someone to spend your life with. After all, beauty is only temperary.
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Rating: 5
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FINALY SOMEONE THAT CAN BE HONEST AND NOT BLOW SMOKE UP MY ASS, WHAT YOU SAID IS COMPLETLY RIGHT
IM SHURE THERE ARE PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD THAT DO DIE ALONE, I JUST DIDINT THIKNK I COULD BE ONE OF THEM.
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