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I'm Michelle. I'm 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I work at Giant full time during the summer- 40 hours a week. I love to have fun, talk, and my boyfriend. Asssk me anything!

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This is a very long question! So if you even READ the whole thing, THANK YOU!
Lets say my boyfriend's name is Randy. Me and Randy have been going out for.. 3 1/2 weeks or so. I love to hear from him, we can talk on the phone for hours. He's.. a partier.. I sometimes do stuff like that, but only on RARE occasions. After about 5 days of dating, a girl that hangs around with him tells me that she likes him, a lot. I'm not the jealous type, believe me. Now she's starting to say stuff like "Oh the stuff I'd do with Randy" Today he told me that he thought that she was hot, but he likes me better. So now I'm stressing out over that because both of them are partiers and stuff MIGHT happen if they are together at a party and I'm not. Randy tells me that he loves me and stuff, but both of them (him and that girl that likes him) seem very attracted to eachother.
How do I talk to him about it without seeming like I don't want him to be around her anymore. I don't want to be a control freak, and I don't want to seem like I don't have any trust in him, but he does have a history of cheating, and I don't want to be hurt. Thanks in advance if you answer my question

What was he thinking telling you he thinks shes hot??!!? Anyway, I would just sit down with him when no one else is around and just tell him what you're thinking, ask him if he ever is going to do anything with her and if hes like OMGOSH NO HOW CAN YOU NOT TRUST ME!! Just tell him you can trust him but you really like him and you don't wanna loose him to this other girl. I know it might be hard to talk to him about it since you've only been going out for 3 1/2 weeks, but you'll feel more comfortable around him if he knows how you feel. He might get really mad tho so just make sure you don't yell or anything =/ You can also try talking to the girl, not being mean but telling her how much you like Randy and how much he likes you and stuff like taht so she knows you have no intention of breaking up
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!

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(Rating: 4) Yeah, we broke up and their going out. We broke up yesterday and he asked her out today!! What an ass, right!!

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