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okay today has been 3 weeks since my best friend and i havent talked for..my best guy friend and he happens to be my crush thinks my worst enemy is hott..and wants to date her but thinks he has no chance n i think he deserves better and plus im moving..my life literally stinks and im going through major depression anyone wanna help??
I think you should try to talk to each of them and straighten it out before you leave. I know it must be hard, but you should atleast try, so it won't be so hard when you leave. So first, we'll start off on what to say to your best friend. You should say something like "It's been three weeks since we haven't talked and I don't like it at all. We're suppose to be best friends. I mean I want to work this out, I don't want us to be mad at each other, we need to work this out, we're best friends after all and we have to be forever. And I can't move knowing we're still not talking, do you think we could work this out...?" Say something like that to her. And then for your best guy friend/crush, say something like "You're one of my best guy friends. But, I want to tell you something. But, you know I'm moving and I just thought this would be the right time to say it, even though there would probably be no chance, but I just can't hold it in any longer. But, I like you more than a friend. And I also just want to look out for you, and I'm not just saying this because I like you, but that girl you think is hot, isn't the right girl for you, you could do so much better than that, I just don't want her to get hurt, that would be the last thing I would want..." Say something like that. Just tell them how you feel and that you don't want to move with her not talking to you and him going out with the wrong person. I hope this helps and good luck hun. Just stay positive and keep smiling. Life will get better, trust me hun. Tell me how it goes. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
(Rating: 5) aww tnxs u helped but see the prob. is i liked him in 6th grade and he knew so for 1 year he hated me,despised me,disliked me very much and i dont want it to happen again and when it comes to my friend i tried workin things out but she just wont listen