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i broke up with this guy about... 10 months ago. i really liked him, and it still kind of hurts. he just got a new g/f and i feel... badly. i wish that it was me again that he was talking to. i know i deserve better than him (he practically ignored me the last two or three months of our relationship) but i feel horibble. anything i can do to stop feeling this way?

I know that feeling! And it sucks, I know. But, you just need to remind yourself of how badly your boyfriend was, remind yourself the bad things he did to you (like how he ignored you for awhile), how you guys broke up, etc. Don't try to remember any of the good stuff because that'll make you want him again. But, you need to start liking other guys too, check out guys now, and don't compare them to your ex boyfriend because that won't get you anywhere. Just go live your life and have fun. That's what your ex boyfriend is doing, since he has a girfriend. If he can't see how great of a girl you are, thats his fault and you deserve a great guy. Just meet new people at like the mall, parties, school, etc. Just go out and have fun! I hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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