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okay, ive been talking to this one guy for like a month now..hes realli kool and everything, we goto different schools, have 2 very different lives, i have my lisense but he doesnt have his and so its totally hard to see eachother..i mean yeah ill meet up with him places and a few times ive given him a ride home,but its totally weird like that, i mean i want a guy to come see ME, pick ME up, drop ME off home, etc..ya know?? before when i first started talking to him i was totally interested and wanted it to work out, now i think im kinda starting to loose interest in him..its so hard tho cause i mean we hold hands, hold eachother, etc, [nuthing more than that kinda stuff] and he got me flowers the other day and hes making me this frame thingy in his ceramics class, and so its totally bad timing for me to wanna end it with him.. hes a realli kool guy but like i dont even know if i like his personality that much more than a friend.. at first i wanted to get to know him and see whut happens, and i did get to know him and im not sure if i realli like him that much now that i got to know him. i feel like im leading him on so much but now hes making me something in his ceramics class, etcetc!!!! whut should i do?? thanks alot

Well, just break it to him easily. Just be like "We both go to different school, live two totally different lives, and we can really never see each other because you don't have your license. I mean yes, you're a great guy because I've gotten to know you. But, I just don't think this is working out, the more I get to know you, the more I realize I only see you as a friend and nothing more. I still want to be your friend because I think you're awesome...I'm not trying to hurt you or anything, I just think we would be better off as friends..." Just say something like that and how you feel and stuff. Just say it nicely and stuff so you can let him know you're not trying to hurt him or anything. I hope this helps and good luck hun! If you needa anything or need more help, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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