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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!textarea.Skem9box {width:200px; height:100px;color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Black;}
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My husband is almost 40, I am just 34. We have been married 10 years but have known each other for 18 years. Sex was always good between us. Lately we haven't had any. I keep asking him if there is someone else in his life because a man can't go as long as he does without it. He says no, he just doesn't need it. I do and have considered leaving him because he doesn't meet my needs. When we do have it, it's almost like it's a chore for him. How can I deal with this? Is it possible there is someone else?
there are several other reasons your husband may not be having sex with you. dont just jump straight to cheating. as someone else told you, depression or stress can be a reason to not want to have sex. also, you have to remember, a man is in his exual prime from like 18-30, women just get into thier prime at about 30. being that you are 34, you may be at the peak of sexual prime, and have a higher sex drive then he does. so being that he is 40, and saying that he really doesnt need it all the time, may be him being honest, because he past his prime. isnt that a bitch? men and women have sexual peaks at different times.
(Rating: 5) It's hard to believe that some at 17 is giving good advice! People that age seem to know more than I do. You've got a good head on your shoulders, keep it that way!