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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!textarea.Skem9box {width:200px; height:100px;color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Black;}
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ok, i liked this guy from school a little, and we really hit it off. We started talking over the internet, and since the hurrican ive been talking to him for a week. Its kinda hard talking to him, but today he told me he loved me. it totally freaked me out!then he said he was just kidding and that he was srry. Of course i told him he needed a life and a girlfriend. But he stared telling me that he was really sorry and sending me these internet flowers. They were soooo beutifull! But, i really cant give my heart to him, how can i tell him that we should be friends and that he should stop being so really sweet to me, even though i like it? And how do i tell my friend about thid last conversation? I think she might like him...I see big problems in the future!
from distraught and in need of answer!
okay 1st off dont tell your friend. i know that sounds bad. but this isnt really a big deal. it will save alot of childish drama. and as for the guy. just tell him "you're a sweet guy, but i really enjoy being your friend, so i need you to please stop acting like you like me, because i really cherish our friendship." and then if you'd like you could add "but i'm sure my friend so&so would love for you to send all that sweet stuff to her, she really likes you".... good luck! :)
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much. Now that i think about it, i feel kinda foolish that im a columnist and dint think of it! That will totally work!