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omg ok this may be confusing..please just try to follow..im 15..my b/f is 16..he's really experienced..unlike me the farthest i go is like touchy feely/kissing..we absolutely love each other and it's obvious we WILL be 2gether for a LONG time..but anyways..he;s extremely touchy feely & like he wants to make - out constantely & i mean i love it, but at the same time im scared, i could SO easily so myself doing things with him that i'd regret..like i love him and all, but i was brought up to respect myself & save myself til i'm a lot older, if not married..and like i want to do things with him, but at the same time, i feel kinda guilty..like iduno i guess i'm a moma's girl ..& everytime he touches me or sumin go a lil but farther..[like yeah ya'll know how i mean], i hear my mother's voice, and i want to but iduno..i'm just confused and scared..what would ya'll do?..don't tell me to only do something if i'm ready and feel comfortable, because i do and i am!..but at the same time i think i should respect myself and my mother and listen to what i've been brought up to do..ya'll know what i mean..hmm ..please help me out here..
xOx ..thanx

well there is nothing wrong with being scared. you are still young. and it is good that you have respect for yourself. atleast you are not out being a little hoe like most gilrs your age. i see it this way, if you have any little doubt, then wait. wait until you have no doubts. thats when you will know you are ready. and im sure if your bf loves you he will wait til you are completely sure.

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(Rating: 5) thanx so much..=) i feel better knowing i'm not over worried or anything

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