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ok well i'm jst really mad about my whole "big family" thing i got goin on here i have 2 younger sisters Kirby(11) Kiersten(9) nd a older sister Christina(22) shes actually a half sister but jst the same i grew up w. her nd nw my momss pregnant .. ok so basically im the oldest and ALWAYS have all this "responsibility" nd i hate it i dnt wanna b here to babysit i wanna go out .. plus my family owns ANOTHER PIZZA RESTAURANT weve owned soo many nd i thought that my dad would stop changin careers nd stay an electrition but no so now i have stress to work there nd my moms pregnant so i feel evn more responsibilty i feel lyk the mom alot .. nd my sister kirby i cnt stand she always tries to put me down i guess but she has no confidence .. nd sometimes i jst wish i was nevr born lyk i dunno what to do w. my feelings i tlked to my bf about it but she dsnt have a big italian family lyk me my family goes on nd im always gettin lectured about suttin .. nd i dunno how to deal w. my feelings
please help .. xO0

I'm sorry =( My sister went out with an italian boy, they do have BIG families! And I know that you're under a lot of stress right now, heck I am and I'm only 15 lol. I'm like dealing with early parenthood too because my mom had a brain tumor so now me and my sisters and dad have to help around the house A LOT. So, I kind of know how you feel. But, try talking to your parents and telling them how you feel and tell them what you told us. And for your sister, I know its hard, but you just have to try to block her out. Thats what I try to do atleast. I just walk away from her and ignore her. But, I would try talking to your parents and just sit them down and be like "I'm under so much stress, I'm like the second mom here, and I don't care about me helping out, but I need to have a life also, and Kirby, she puts me down, and that puts more stress on me, now that you're pregnant mom, I just don't know what to do, because that means I'll have to do more work." Just say something like that and just tell them how you feel about the whole situation. I hope this helps. If you need to talk about it, just leave a message in my inbox. Hope everything works out!! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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