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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

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well what else is there i was that girl who asked about maturbating

I don't want to get banned for writing sexual stuff so google it.

ok admit it i know you maturbate. well if you dont i still think you can asnswer this Q. ok i try to maturbate. My cherry did pop but im still a virgin. so i stick my fingure down there (i can only fit one) and i go up and down. I dont feel anything speacil. ill be horney as like whatever but it doesnt work. Any ideas?? im a 15/F

Hm.. if you don't feel anything then try doing something else. Try doing a different techniqe that would make you get an orgasm. Masturabating doesn't only have to inclue finguring you know.

Hi, I'm 14 years old. My boy friend and I have been together for almost 7 months. He says he loves me but I think he's confused. It's possible to think you love some one but not really love them, right? He invited me to go to his lake house with him and my parents said I could go. There's a pool there so all that we'll do is hang out there. But I really don't like my body and I don't know what to do, what if when he sees me in a two peice he'll realize how hidious I am and break up with me? This really worries me cuz I don't know what I'd do with out him.

I think that you are over reacting. I don't think your boyfriend would break up with you for that reason after 7 months. He seems to like you for who you are and not your body. You might feel uncomftrable at first, but you just need to relax. If you don't like your body, then change it. Exercise more and just take care of yourself. Make sure you do this because you want to, not for others. When you go to the lake house, try to have fun and not worry about what he would think of your body. If he didn't like you he wouldn't of aksed you out.

i have limewire and is it really bad like.. causes spyware and slows down your computer? is bearshare any better? does it slow down the computer alsooo?

I had Bearshare before and it's horrible. I got so many pop ups, a virus and it slowed down my computer. For me, Limewire is great. It goes fast on my computer and no spyware or anything. If I were you I would get Ares. It's fast and works good. You can download it at www.download.com

were can i get music codes ? i know on xangas but anyone have siites?

http://www.xanga.com/music_myantidrug
http://www.xanga.com/i_luv_music4ever

is it true tampons make your cherry pop? and does it mean you're not a not a virgin anymore?

Yes, it's true. It happens rarely but it still happens. It does not mean you're not a virgin still unless you actaully have sex and a penis goes up your vagina.

I don't really have a best friend, but I have a group of about 10 close friends at my school. I also have two other really good friends at another school. Two of my friends at my school seem to hate one of my friends at the other school. They constantly talk about her and make mean remarks about her looks, even though she's really pretty. Sometimes it seems like they're jelous. But they claim they aren't. I've told them to stop and I've told them she's never done anything to them. But they don't really listen. I know that some of ya are probably gonnna say "if they're your real friends, they'd respect what you say" but I mean, you'd have to know them to understand. I told my friend what they say about her and she doesn't care. But the other day she e-mailed one of my friends and they brought other people into it and now everyone thinks I lie even though I told the truth to everyone. Things are good again with me and my friend that gets talked about, but I'm not sure about one of my other friends.. Help.

When people talk crap about someone they barely know at all, they are jelous. Of course they will say they aren't and stuff and continue talking trash but they will never learn. The best thing you should do is ignore them. Let them say whatever they want. You and your friend know that those things aren't true and that it's just some stupid girls who have nothing better to do. The more you care about them stopping, they never will. That's what type of people they are and when someone does that to them, they will see how it hurts. Right now they thinks it's all fun, but something in the future will hurt them. Don't stop being friends with them, but just ignore their gossiping. I know that other girl is your friend and you want to be there for her and stick up for her, but they are immature and wont stop. Who cares what they have to say anyway?

ok i reported a guy, and now nothing iz happening, what do i do now? what is happening?

After you report someone, it might take a little while for a moderator to respond to that. Check in about an hour or so and then see what happens. If they don't suspend him, they will also write the reason why.

EDIT- When you want to see if the person was suspended or not, click on Report Abuse again and then go towards the bottom and it will say To check up on reports you've already submitted, click here. So click there, & it will show up.

okay well when i srunch my hair i just use gel and its a bit after i get out of the shower so its wet. what other ways if theres another way that makes it better. but if i still use gel.

After you get out of the shower you should of towel dried your hair so it's not like soaking wet. It's supposed to me wet but not a lot. You can also use moose. After you scrunched it blow dry it on low for about 2 minutes and then hair spray it.

ok...ive been trying to look up fall out boy tickets on ticketmaster.com, because them, and the all american rejects are coming someplace where around where i live on 3/15, and i cant find where their playing and how much the tickets cost...but some of my other friends have tickets and i dont know how they got them so i was wondering if u could get a website where i can find prices of where their gonna be or something??....i live in middleburgh NY 12122 thanks

I'm sorry but I really don't have time to look it all up. If I were you I would ask your friends where they got it or just try googling it. Sorry.

4.5 hehe

What??

everyone talks about going to tequilas? what is that and where is it at

I think it's a resturant, but I'm not sure.

ello me jake, i take vocab class, but jake get bored and girl infront of jake make jake's helmet full, jake play with helmet, but jake want friends, how jake get friends?

No comment.

my hair is poofy whenever i blow dry my hair when i wash it. believe me when i say its poofy.. so i heard that when you scrunch your hair after you wash it ..it will work and be curly but i have tried it a billion times scrunching it and when it air dries or even when i blowdry it with it scrunched.. its poofy and it doesnt look as good as others.. so what is something i could do so when i scrunch it, it wont come out poofy

http://beauty.about.com/od/fallhairstyles/a/scrunchgo.htm

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4077.asp

^ Go there. It will tell you how.

all girls at my school have this really cool hairstyle its like wavy andit looks like its hard. (the hair looks hard i mean) but ehir hair isnt wavy! how do i make that style with the wavy crispy hair lol. sorry if i'm confusing!

They probablly scrunch their hair. It's really easy to do. After you get out of the shower, towel dry your hair. Take moose and put a lot of it in your hair & then use your fingers to scrunch it.

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4077.asp

http://beauty.about.com/od/fallhairstyles/a/scrunchgo.htm

Go there, it will help.

do u know of any good myspace layout sites?

No I don't. I'm sorry.

I know there is one xanga site and its like called xanga.com/all_iconsmusicquotes

or something like that.
you gave it out before.
if you still know it, could you give me the right link?
thanks.

http://www.xanga.com/ALL__ic0nsqu0tesmusic

why do people on here ask about touchy questions when they dont want to hear the truth? like for instance some person just asked why people are mean to mormans or something along those lines and although ive never heard that i told the person exactly why i know mormans are unliked from where im from and he flipped on me because i guess thats not what he wanted to here. so if you dont want to hear the truth why do you ask those questions?

People who ask those kinds of questions don't need advice. They want to see other people's comments and what they would so to them. It's really pathetic and it drives me nuts. Most people ask for advice when they know the asnwer but when you tell them the truth, they don't like it and they rate you 1. It just shows immaturity and all we can do is ignore them. There really isn't a way to get rid of these people unless they break the rules from the FAQ. Bummer, I know.

anybody know any fun websites to go to? ANYTHING!! i need something to do. thanks lovers.

What do you like?? www.neopets.com .. seriously that's really fun. Lol, it's not for only 10 year old's but I find it interesting.

for losing weight:
is it better to run/jog consistently for a long period of time,
or to take short breaks in between?

It's better to take short breaks to catch your breath and get some water. If you constantly keep running without non stopping you might dehydrate and that's not good.

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