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Gossip, Gossip, Gossip
I don't really have a best friend, but I have a group of about 10 close friends at my school. I also have two other really good friends at another school. Two of my friends at my school seem to hate one of my friends at the other school. They constantly talk about her and make mean remarks about her looks, even though she's really pretty. Sometimes it seems like they're jelous. But they claim they aren't. I've told them to stop and I've told them she's never done anything to them. But they don't really listen. I know that some of ya are probably gonnna say "if they're your real friends, they'd respect what you say" but I mean, you'd have to know them to understand. I told my friend what they say about her and she doesn't care. But the other day she e-mailed one of my friends and they brought other people into it and now everyone thinks I lie even though I told the truth to everyone. Things are good again with me and my friend that gets talked about, but I'm not sure about one of my other friends.. Help.
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i think that you should stop worrying about what the other girls think. they should'nt matter to you. in hte end you are the only one that knows you best. turn to your family for help always friends will come and go but family will always be there...i know tha you really care what the other girls say since they come to your school but try not to i mean life is'nt about worring about stupid immature girls who have nothing better to do in their life.
this may have nothing to do with the subject but my mom tells me blood can never become water.. so understand it how ever you want... hope i helped by and good luck. in like 10 or 20 years when you have a great life married maybe kids have a great education. you will think back to the time when you actually cared what people thought espically shallow people like them girls and laugh at yoour self so byeeeee
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When people talk crap about someone they barely know at all, they are jelous. Of course they will say they aren't and stuff and continue talking trash but they will never learn. The best thing you should do is ignore them. Let them say whatever they want. You and your friend know that those things aren't true and that it's just some stupid girls who have nothing better to do. The more you care about them stopping, they never will. That's what type of people they are and when someone does that to them, they will see how it hurts. Right now they thinks it's all fun, but something in the future will hurt them. Don't stop being friends with them, but just ignore their gossiping. I know that other girl is your friend and you want to be there for her and stick up for her, but they are immature and wont stop. Who cares what they have to say anyway?
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