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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

Much love, Teza

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Ever since I lost a very small amount of weight over the last few years my boobs got smaller. I went from a large B-cup to a 34 A-cup. What happened? I feel that if my boobs would stick out a bit more my stomache would not look so large since I am a large person. Would my boobs being bigger make the rest of me look smaller?

That's not exactly how it works. When you lose weight you also lose the fat from your boobs. It's normal. Now if you have large boobs it doesn't make the rest of the body seem smaller and if you have small boobs it doens't make your body look bigger. You're still not done with growing and your boobs won't be small forever. They stop growing when you are about 18 years old so don't worry. As you grow they will get bigger.

Hey does anyone know if bambi is a girl or a boy?
Just wondering, it has to do with a school thing.

He's a boy.. but I always thought it was a girl by the voice.

Okay im 13
4'11
and i weigh 92 pounds
i want to lose weight but my doctor said it would be unhealthy. so im kind of looking to tone-up my body in a more healthy way. and i'm not aloud to go on a diet
:-/
anything helps!
i rate high!
thanks

You don't need to loose any weight but it's normal to be unhappy with some parts of your body. You can exercise but you probablly have baby fat which will go away as you get older. Try exercising a little bit to tone it down but do not go on any diets.

www.toneteen.com has pictures of really good exercises.

i think my friend is going anerxic..
what are some signs they she might be?

Here are signs on anorexia.

-Extreme weight loss
-Refusal to eat enough to maintain a healthy body weight
-Persistent negative comments about body shape and size
-Distorted body image and self-perception
-Inability to recognize true body size/thinness
-Excessive exercise
-Continuing to diet although thin
-Obsessive calorie and fat gram counting
-Constant weighing
-Refusing to eat in public/avoidance of eating situations
-Denial of the problem
-Claiming lack of hunger
-Attributing life successes or failures to weight
-Dressing in layers to hide weight loss
-Thinning hair
-Dry, yellow skin
-Dry, brittle hair and nails
-Complaints of being cold all the time
-Refusal to eat solid food
-Disguising lack of eating or reduced food intake by playing with food, picking at food, rearranging food on the plate, hiding food
-Fine, downy hair that develops on face or body
-Lack of menstrual period; loss of menses
-Personality changes
-Inability to accept compliments; frequent self-belittling comments
-High expectations of perfection

urgh so im 14 years old and im 5'0
i weigh almost 100 pounds & i think im like a dinosaur.
but my main concern is my love handles.
thats like above the hips. its super gross.
what are good easy ways to get rid of them?
please helppp ♥

There are some simple exercises you can do. Here is one website and it will describe it.

http://www.ivillage.co.uk/dietandfitness/getfit/strengtone/qas/0,,255_157590,00.html

Now, this is one of the best. Here is the other website. It shows pictures of how to do the exercise and how it works for your body.

http://www.toneteen.com/exercises/stomach.htm

most of my people on my buddylist have creative profiles... they even have diffent fonts and little sayings... i dont see where they get this stuff like the hearts and stuff.. and i dont take them out of their profiles because i dont like when people copy off me so i dont do it to them.. i also dont see how they get all the diffrent fonts and colors in their profile because where you go and edit you profile it dont give you a choice of what font you want..

is there any websites or places where i can creative sayings and diffrent fonts and be unique?

anything will help/ i rate 5's

I always have a "different" profile and everyone always copies me and I hate it. I get my colors from Applesauce. It's a program you download and it doesn't give you viruses. I get my sayings from quotes but not all the time. Sometimes I make them up but most of the time it's just something random. I found a website for you though. http://www.xanga.com/CutiiEqUoTeS

ohkay well im 132 pounds and im 5'3 and in 7th grade so yea . im pretty much wut u peron whould call FATTTTTT . and i hate it and i just want to loose weight and ive tried to not eat alot but i just cant help it and i even tried doing crunches before bed and nothing seems to work . . and i just whannt to loose weight i hate being fat . i was thinking about making myself throw up after i eat but idk HELP ME

Loosing weight isn't as hard as everyone says so. If you really wanted to, you could do it. Stop saying you can't loose any weight and that nothing works but you have to try harder. First, doing just crunches and eating less won't make you loose any weight. When you make a drastic change in your diet you will actually loose weight harder because your body isn't used to that. Anyways, you don't have to go on a "diet". I hate that word. It simply just means that you can't have any of the goodies!! Go on a healthier eating plan. If you're like me and hate veggies and love sweets then you have to get used to eating more veggies and less sweets.. a lot less. There are so many recepies for vegtables and how to make them yummy for you. Eat less amounts of food. Do you go over 3,500 calories a day? Well, I don't really think you keep track but if you just eat whatever and not keep track of calories, you are more likely to gain weight. Anyways, keep list of what you eat and how many calories it has. I'm on an 1,500 calorie "diet" and it's not bad. I eat less perportions and I eat more veggies. I'm not saying I don't eat any chocolate or whatever because I do but I don't pig out. I have a small peace of something maybe once or twice a week and I drink tons of water and exercise an hour or so a day. Doing crunches will tone your stomach but it won't make you loose much weight. So, try walking for an hour, do crunches, and eat healthy. Throwing up it silly. You won't loose much weight and you are just going to ruin your teeth and your lungs.

Srry this is kind of long! i dont have a clue what the heck to do i have two best friends and they met only becuz of me and we are all rlly good friends but they always leave me out and dont invite me anywhere or call me and lately they both seem to have been acting like im the most annoying thing on earth and they just act annoyed and get mad at ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that I do and when i TRY to talk to them and they are together most of the time they ignore me and when i get mad at them for them leaving me out ALL THE TIME they get mad at me and i end up saying sorry for no reason what should i do?

Sorry it took me a while to answer your question. Anyways, you can't just ignore the situation but you need to do something about it. Talk to them and make sure they listen. Don't raise your voice at them eather but just tell them how you are feelings about this whole thing. You all are friends but sometimes they just want privacy. Even if you aren't with them all the time, they feel like it and if you complain it bothers them. Like I said, talk to them and if they still act the way they do, let them be like it. They will come back to you and realize how gay they were acting.

let me explain :]

in december i got my period, and then a month later in January i got it on time. then, it came very lightly stwo weeks later, and two weeks later normally again. then after that (this month) it came again two weeks later but only for 3 days and very light. now, a week later, its coming again but heavy. Ive only had it for a year, and i know it may not be regular, but im still worried.

is this normal? I will rate!

There is nothing wrong with you and you shouldn't be worried. Everyone has it different. For me, I barely get mine. I get it maybe once in 2 months and it stays for 2 or 3 days. I used to worry about it, but it's nothing bad. It's different for everyone. I know it might get on your nerves, but maybe you can talk to your mom so she can put you on birh control. Not for sex, but for your period.

any cool sights where I can meet cool people.. besides myspace?

Xanga, Live Journal, Buddypic, & Frappr.

ok well im a little confused.. what does "getting wet" mean like i know what it means and all but like is it your whole body or just your area lol

It's when your vagina is wet.

What would be something cute to do with your hair for a special occaison?? ( f/13. a little bit longer than my shoulder length brownish red hair. (mostly brown) though. thanks!!)

It depends on the occaison. For all special occasions it would be cute if you just left your hair down and straight. You can't go wrong with it and it's very good looking. You can also curl it. You can use a hot curling iron or the ones you sleep in. Eather way, have it down and have it straight or curly. Pinning your bangs back with bobby pins would look cute too.

how do you make a myspace private?

Change your age to 14 and it will be on private.

Yeah so i just had a chocolate pudding cup..cause i was upset!! hahaha....well yeah i think i did something wrong...casue i was amad a my friend "ZOOT" for something really stupid..then i acted like i lost my voice sunday so that i didn't ahve to talk to him..and then i felt so bad i caleld him and told him i was sorry! and then i told him i would write it all in a note and give it to him wednesday!!!! and then he didn't even show up!!! now i am afraid to talk to him see him ect!!!! cause i know i did something wrong...i need more sweets!!!!!!!!!!!!! please give me some advice!!!

Uhm, calm down and next type please time properly. So what if you had chocolate pudding? It's not going to kill you and you don't need sweets, you're just eating because you are eather nervous about something, worried or scared. Try to be nicer and don't get mad at people for no reason because when it becomes a rutine, it gets on peoples nerves. If he wasn't there on Wednesday, give it to him another day and just try to talk to him again.

well i have been on advicenators for like 5 months now....and at first i only gave people advice..but then i started asking stuff and lately i ask a ton of questions and dont really answer as many as i used to...will my account get deleted because of that?

No it won't. You have to do something bad to get suspended from the site and if you need advice, you are free to ask. If you don't have much time to answer questions that's okay too.

how do i delete my xanga page??

You can't delete it, but you can shut it down.

http://edit.xanga.com/editaccountsearch.aspx

okay. since i cant let my computer have any viruses.

what will happen if i download limewire, download 10 songs or so and then uninstall it. then just install it whenever i need it.

im willing to do anything not to get a virus. because my mom said if i crash my computer one more time then i cant get it fixed anymore..
and walmart.com has nothing to chose from!

thanks..

Limewire is awesome and it doesn't carry any viruses at all. It's really good and fast so no worries. Also Ares is really good.

ok, so my best friend..is kinda starting to get on my nerves. idk but like, all she gets is straight A's on her report cards, 100's on tests, A+'s on projects. and i do well in school too, but it's starting to bug me. because its like, she'll get her test back, and get a higher grade than me, and its like she ALWAYS does better than me. for example: we just had to do a project for social studies, and i had to do a summary. so i typed it up and everything. i was talking to her online later and she told me to send it to her so she could read it. she told me that i had mistakes, 2 MISTAKES. so she said she was going to fix them and print it out, while i had already printed it out. so i was like okay whatever. next day in school, she shows me what she printed out, its like all fancy, cover page, border, word art and everything, while all i had was a title and the paragraphs. so i pretty much wasted my time typing it up. like everything she does has to be perfect. and i know i'm not perfect but ughh its so annoying, bcuz like everything i do, she has to do better. also on an english project, we just had to write the paragraph on the paper the teacher gave us, SHE re-typed it. so should i like confront her about this, or just leave things the way they are? i don't want to start anything, she's a really good friend. but this is just starting to bug me. thanks in advance

It kind of seems like you guys have a competition on who gets better grades and such. If she's the type of person who likes things to be perfect then so what. There isn't anything wrong with it and since she is your best friend you need to tell her how you feel about this. It's not fair that you are keeping it all inside. You know that you tried your best on school work and you should be happy for her that she does well. Don't try to compete over this because it's pointless. You guys can help each other do well. If it's still bothering you, tell her and you will feel much better about it.

okay, this is really hard to explain. but whenever I log onto MY account on the computer (not my mom's or dad's) the fonts are smaller on many websites. Like, on myspace, the bulletins are font size 1 intead of 2, and yahoo mail has smaller links. My account did the same thing awhile back, only it made fonts bigger.

Fonts are also showing up incorrectly on Microsoft Word.. but not IM.

SO If anyone knows what the issue is here and maybe explain it to me? My computer is virus free. thanks.

...I rate high & leave comments ♥

I know what you are talking about. It's not from the computer but it's just some of the websites. Well, press Ctrl and Alt at the same time and scroll up. You know the thing on your mouse where you can go up and down? Well do all of it at once and once you find the right size, just click,.

im getting a treadmill soon and what i want to know is how much should i go on the treadmill each day if i want to lose my chubby stomach ? any hints

60 minutes a day and a healthy diet will get rid of that extra fat. Don't make a drastic change in your diet. Eat the foods you normaly do but don't eat sweets, fats, and have about 1500 calories a day. Drink a lot of water and just stick to it.

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