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Ok well i'm 13 and i was getting to know this girl. She just broke up with her bf. And she told me that she liked me. C the thing is i didn't know her that well and i started to try and talk to her more. I was starting to like her but i've only seen her once and only talk to her online. But i started to like her. Only i just started talkin to her 4 days ago. So i told her that i wasn't gonna ask her out until i got to know her better. The problem is now she's goin out with another guy. Is there somthin wrong with me should i have asked her out?

Plz Help

No, there's nothing wrong with you. It's good that you didn't ask her out without knowing her. Keep getting to know her, maybe she'll change her mind.

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I live in a TINY town. 4 all you other people who do too, what are some fun things to do without driving to the big city?

OMG I HATE IT! Um...go camping? hug a tree, go for a walk...? stay at home and be bored lol. thats about what i do...cept for the tree-hugging part..im not that in touch with nature lol.

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I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy*

Julie Roberts-Break Down Here
Yellowcard-Empty Apartment
Switchfoot-Meant to live
Story of the Year- Until the day I die

If you need any more or whatever IM me on aim at xcry4noguyx or drop it in the inbox and ill make a good list.

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My x still likes me and i like him bac but the thing is my parents are like " Your not that serous in relation ships" I know i am and i dont know how to prove it to them?? Can any1 tell ma how ta cuz i love this guy to death

I don't know if there is a way to prove that you love this guy to them. Just tell them that you really care about this guy..and its actually none of their business who you date if you ask me, unless he's of illegal age.

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im nervous about having sex, im still a virgin. i think im ready but im a little insecure about my body, its almost fully developed. im worried the guy im goin to do it with is gunna look at me naked nd is gunna be like eww her body is gross, im not fat, i just dont know what he will think. (he's much more experienced than i am) gurls nd guys please help me out:)
i rate well!

Omg hunny don't worry. If you think you're ready then go for it but be careful bc you might regret it later. MAKE SURE you're ready. Its good to do it with an experienced person first so at least one of you knows what you're doing. Every girl is a little insecure about their body, its natural. The guy isn't going to tell you that you're gross or that you're fat trust me. I'm sure everything will be fine. MAKE him use a condom, you don't need to get pregnant. Once again, i remind you to make sure that you're completely ready to lose your virginity because its supposed to be with someone special.

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do guys get grossed out when a gurls cherry pops nd blood comes out?

No, they know its normal. Plus, its usually not a lot of blood.

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i have a picturetrail account, and i want to add music thats not a MIDI. once i had some type of code that worked for a wav music that i put onto the intro page, and it worked .. but then i took it off to change it, kept the same code & all but it didnt work! and i can never get it to work anymore =( but i did ONCE so there MUST be a way .. does anyone know how?? thanks .. i'll rate!!!!!

Unless you're a paid member with some really great premium services, I don't know how you put music on your picture trail. And by the way, you should use webshots because it doesn't delete your site if you don't become a paid member, picture trail does after awhile. I really don't think you can put music on a site that doesn't have HTML handling like picture trail.

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i need conversation startes to talk to a freshman guy who only plays soccer which ik nothing about and isnt in my classes

There's always other things to talk about. Ask him how its going...stuff like that. Conversation will pick up.

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OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
Signed
FED UP!

its okay to change. If thats what you wanna be, then its wrong of them to try to stop you from doing something you like. Never change just to make someone happy so if they don't like it they're just gonna have to deal with it, they'll come around eventually.

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my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?

No offense but I think your mom is being a jerk! Is she still with this guy???? If so, call the police and file a report for sure. Never let ANYONE get away with something like that. Talking about it helps so yes, you should go to therapy. If it builds up in you it could lead to bad things. Sorry to hear about your problem and I hope you get everything straightened out.

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im doing a tripod site and i try uploading a music file but it says only mp3 au rm music files are allowed what r some websites to get those kinda of music files. i want music with words i dont like the midi music cuz thats only back ground music and i would like music with words for my site please help. so please give me some websites that will allow me to use on tripod with words thanks

the best website i can think of for that is www.moozik-jamz.com. They have great songs and its easy to use if you know html, if you need any more help just IM me at xcry4noguyx or drop one in the inbox.

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I broke up wit my boyfriend and I still love him to death.. And i cant stop but I broke up wit him cuz of parental reasons ** He's 15 and im 13 ** Now all i do is think of him... But what makes me feel worse is that he was cring the whole day :-( i dont know what to do.. Cuz If i didnt break up wit him i would get into troble, loose my trusts from my parents and never get to see him or talk to him.. But now that i broke up wit him i can talk to him and see him :-(

Parents dont understand anything these days. Im gonna be rated bad by other members for this but you should ask him back out and hide it from your parents. What they don't know can't hurt them, right?

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how do i prevent the red razor bumps on my bikini line from coming when i shave? and how do i get a very close shave to where you cant even tell there is hair there? i want it all gone but everytime i shave it just turns red and gets razor burn.

Make sure you don't dry shave, use a GOOD razor, not one of those dollar ones. The cheap razors are always dull and never work too good. Use one like the Venus or Gillette. Make sure you use WATER AND shaving cream or soap. I've seen ads for a thing called a painless hair removal kit. I think its called One Touch Finish or something, anyways you can buy it at wal-mart. I would try waxing last since it is VERY painful at the bikini line.

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Okay i was just wondering....does it hurt to get your tounge belly-button or nose peirced? and is there like any way you could do it yourself without damagin anything?? and then also..if your like drunk or high or somethin....would it still hurt? and one last thing....does anyone know of any good sites thatll give you tips on how to do it yourself or information on it?? Thnkx alot!!

Bull, It doesn't hurt all that bad to get the belly done. It just feels like a tiny pinch. You can do it yourself if you're careful. First make sure your holes are gonna be straight on each end, use a big needle so a belly ring will fit, but you can't leave something straight in for too long, it has to be a curved peice of jewelry. Make sure you use bactine solution to clean it, and Triple anti-biotic ointment works really good. It shouldn't get infected if you do that. Oh, and STERILIZE YOUR NEEDLE!!! The nose, yes you can do that yourself I've done it, it doesn't hurt at all but I wouldn't recommend you do it yourself. Its kind of disgusting. but no it doesn't hurt. And All of the people i know who have their tongue done, says it doesn't hurt at all. After you get it done you can only eat soft foods for like 3 days, and it will sting if you eat something spicy. Don't do the tongue yourself, I've heard you could actually kill yourself that way. Um...if you're drunk or high or something, it will feel the same you just probably won't remember the pain the next day. Purkasettes are nice for numbness :)

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Howdy; it's advice-giver lovelyrita in the mood for some advice-gettin'. I'm a 21-year-old female and I'm an incredible cheapskate when it comes to clothes (or anything, really). When I was younger I was Thrift Store Girl, but nowadays I take advantage of the incredible sales at websites like Alloy, Delias, and GirlfriendsLA (RIP). I know I'm a bit old to be shopping at places like that, but I can't resist the call of Sweet-Ass Tops for Under $10. So my question is: do you know of other websites that have fantastic sale sections?

You should try e-bay. A lot of people have some awesome clothes to sell for very cheap! :)

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Okay my friend well call her CH asked my boyfriend (IB) if we were going out and I didnt tell her to and he said no but the other day he told me that we were I have known my boyfriend longer than crystal and i was friends with him for several months before he asked me out and i dont know what to do i wrote him a note asking him if it was true but i dont know if that was the right thing to do i havent given it to him normally id call him but hes grounded because of bad grades and i am really confuse i love him so much i dont know what i would do with out him and i am in desperate need of help so please help me i dont know what to do...-*-Blonde with Love-*-

If he's denying going out with you, in my opinion he isn't worth it. But see what he says to that note and if he does tell you that you two are dating, then make sure you let him know that there's no reason to hide it and that if he continues to hide the fact, than you guys will be over. Never let a guy walk all over you.

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well should i tell him that i still like him..

yes...just tell him how you feel..remember like I said in one of my other advice things, "Always tell someone how you feel, mean what you say and say what you mean. Opportunities are lost in the blink of an eye but regrets can last a
l i f e t i m e"

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i am a 14 year old girl and...well about a year ago i started dating this kid who was like 2 years older than me and i loved him soo much we only went out for about 3 months but i was so happy with him and when he broke up with me i was soo sad and i STILL like him but he doesnt know this and he doesnt like me like that and now he wants to date one of my bestfriends and she likes him too...and i want them to because i wanna be a good freind to him and i want him to be happy and i think hes good for her but it hurts me so much to know that they are together when im wishing it was me..please help

Being in that position is really hard...especially when it's your best friend because she's gonna talk to you about him. I've been in that place before and trust me I know it hurts really bad. I guess the only thing you can do is be there for them when they need you even though it hurts..everything happens for a reason and maybe you were supposed to learn something from this experience..

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ok well im 14 and like 2 years ago i some how started talking to one of my older brothers friend online like alot!(he's really hot) and like we would go off and on with talking and stuff and like ive started to REALY like him and now he's leaving for collage tomarrow and im so upset about him leavng but i knwow how i feel dosnet make a differense to him and its not like i dont want him to go i just idk im so confused i can really us soem help!

I don't agree with the person that said it was just puppy love. People can feel strongly at the age of fourteen. The issue is, you like this guy BUT, even if you did have a chance with him, it would be illegal and he could go to jail. I think maybe you should concentrate on guys your age, none over two years older. He probably thinks of you more like a little sister, and maybe thats how you should start to feel about him. I know that it takes some time to get over people, but it does just sound like infatuation. Sure, you're going to miss him but life will go on. You'll get over him in time and will find someone more..well..legal and someone that really truely cares about you! :)

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I have a webshots account and I was wondering can I add music to that or do I have to make an account with picture in order to put music with my pics

There isn't a possibility to put music on your webshots. Thatwebsite is for photos and does not include HTML handling.

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