Okay my friend well call her CH asked my boyfriend (IB) if we were going out and I didnt tell her to and he said no but the other day he told me that we were I have known my boyfriend longer than crystal and i was friends with him for several months before he asked me out and i dont know what to do i wrote him a note asking him if it was true but i dont know if that was the right thing to do i havent given it to him normally id call him but hes grounded because of bad grades and i am really confuse i love him so much i dont know what i would do with out him and i am in desperate need of help so please help me i dont know what to do...-*-Blonde with Love-*-
sorry to say this but sometimes the best and most important thing to you wont feel the same way and i know it hurts. it happened to me too. and i can relate. my x used to talk shit about me around his friends just to get attention, and he would smile to my face. whats that ya know? but honestly. if he had the balls to say that then you dont need him. and you could do better. you dont need a man that will deny anything going on between the two of you. so you be the strong one. if your best friend told you that and she hasnt decieved you in the past because of a guy then i highly doubt she is lying to you. so look at the facts. do you want to be happy? be the bigger person and end it for yourself, knowing that you will find something bigger and better for you.. whos honest.
mshonest4eva answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 9:04 pm: Girl, if you love him and he loves you, then you will find the way. Not a way, THE way. How it will go.Tell him that your kind of confused, and if you guys are an item, tell him you need to be his b4 all the competion!! (NOT THAT EXACT WORDING, PLEASE!!) Make the best of your situation untill you can talk to him again. If thats a while, kepp Crystal busy.......hehe!
xcry4noguyx answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 9:00 pm: If he's denying going out with you, in my opinion he isn't worth it. But see what he says to that note and if he does tell you that you two are dating, then make sure you let him know that there's no reason to hide it and that if he continues to hide the fact, than you guys will be over. Never let a guy walk all over you. [ xcry4noguyx's advice column | Ask xcry4noguyx A Question ]
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