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Yesterday i killed the person i loved. And i dont know what to do... SHould i go to the police, should i run, should i kill myself? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME

I dont think you're serious. If you're not GET A LIFE. If you are, turn yourself in.

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where do you get your backgrounds?
if its xanga layouts can you please give me some websites?? and how do you put them on your column?

I do get my backgrounds from xanga layouts. Gosh i get them from many, you'll have to look around. But since im nice, ill give you some. :)
http://www.xanga.com/OHMYGOSH_LAYS
http://www.xanga.com/SHiiMMERxLAYOUTS
http://www.xanga.com/BEVERLYxHILLSxLAYS
http://www.xanga.com/Ohs0juicy_lays
http://www.xanga.com/CALi+x3_LAYS
These are my favorites!! They have the best!! =D

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I recently got a new computer and I downloaded limewire on it. I have been using Limewire for about 3 years now and i have never had any type of problems with it. But last night I was trying to download a CD for my boyfriend and I would type in a song and hit search and Limewire would just close. And I would click on the icon and open it again and it would close on it own. Why is Limewire doing this? Do I have a bug in my program? I have also uninstalled Limewire and then re-installed it but nothing fixes this. Thanks for any help. also what other programs are good for downloading music.

Oh yea, limewire did that to me after a year. I hate limewire, it sends you viruses. You should try Ares. It's WAY faster, and doesn't send you viruses. It also has chatrooms =D
Here's ONE website you can get it on

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hey do u know any scary movies PG 13 i was gonna have a movie night at my house this saturday night

respond by thursday PLEASE thanks bunch latta

Here are some:
-White noise
-Scary movie 3/Scary movie 2&1
-The ring/ The ring two
-The exorcism of emily rose (this movie is disgusting and scared the hell out of me, close your eyes.. based on a true story)

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ok so here it goes.... me and my gf were hangin out in my room a couple weeks ago and we randomly decided to take a pic of her wit her top off and covering her nipples with her hands. i took it on my phone and had it for awhile. 2day when i got home from her house i had her call my aunt and left my phone in there. she comes in my room with the pic and yells at me for doing it and says thats y i dont trust u. she said she might tell her mom but that would ruin anything. i cant talk to my mom about it bc i never could and whenever i try she doesnt listen. wat should i do??

Shame on you. If she didn't want you to or didn't know, why the hell would you do it?? Guys these days...

Well, okay, whatever, ill help you anyways. Let her cool down for a week and call her up to go somewhere. Take her there and explain why you did it. I would be surprised if you even could explain... Show her the picture and rip it in front of her. Tell her you're sorry for being a bastard.

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Is hair removal of any kind bad for you?

Lots of my friends say that nair leaves red bumps that burn where you shave, so if you do hair removal make sure its not nair. No, hair removal is not bad for you. In fact it's better than shaving.

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Is it normal to have the feeling like your going to pee during masturbation? even when my boyfriend fingers me i feel like i have to pee even if i pee before. Is this normal?

Yeah.

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I read your profile and the advice you give. Simply amazing. But I have a question for you. Me and my ex recently broke up. Well she dumped me but heres the story. Last sunday we had a wonderful talk on the phone for like 3 hours. I call her the next day and 2 minutes into the convo she dumps me saying the distance is to hard. Shes an hour away in college I visit everyweekend. She never complained about distance or never missed me so I dont get it and how we talked so nice then the next time she dumps me. Thats not the problem though. I really miss her and she hasnt answered a phone call,IM, or email since then. Shes the sweetest girl and so nice. I just dont get it. I really dont know what to do because I really want to talk to her still and at least be friends. Can you try to figure something out. Im 21/m shes 18/f. She doesnt drink or smoke. Doesnt like someone too sweet if that helps. You got a 5 no matter what just for reading.

Thanks for the comment. She probably has alot of things going on. Colledge and trying to find time to keep the relationship going. It might be about the distance becasue you only visit her on weekends, but it could be that she has very important things going on and its too hard for her. If she hasn't answered ever since then dont bother her. Wait for a few months and call her right out of the blew. Ask her to hang out somewhere and talk to her. If she cant go anywhere tell her over the phone. Tell her you miss her and you want to know whats going on. If she hangs up she doesnt want to talk about it so dont force her. Move on. Im sure you'll find someone else.

GoodLuck

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whats freak dancing?

Grinding...

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Hey does anyone know a link that has any DANCE mixes.. like what cheerleaders have.. I have a dance solo and I need a song.. please help! Hip hoppy and up to date please! I rate high!

ciara and missy elliot- lose control
and
gwen stafani- hollaback girl
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I'm a 13/f and my bday is coming up soon. My parents asked me what I want but i honestly dont know! lol What are things ($150 and under) that I could ask for?!?!

Sorry, it would be wrong if i told you. I dont know what YOU like. If you aren't sure ask them for money and when you come across anything you might like you can buy it.
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i keep having a weird dream every once in awhile about my mother and my husband being married and sleeping together it is disturbing me

It's just a dream....

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Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape

When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?

easy 5's people!

Gossip Girl= A,B,C
Laguna Beach: Life inside the bubble= A,B,C

Sorry, that's all i know.

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Why is it that everyone focuses on the sex of a relationship before a relationship has even started, why do people judge each other on looks rather than personality?

Gosh, i know it's pathetic. Porbably because people want to be seem with someone 'sexy'. It bother's me. It's mostly guys who do this but it can be girl's too.
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Does anyone know any good websites, chatrooms, and basically anything that might help me get in touch with someone with the same interests as I? I'm a 16 year old Asian, yeah pretty sick huh? oh wellz

Umm..
www.myspace.com
yahoo chat (you have to get yahoo, go to homepage, and click chat)
msn chat (you have to sign up for that)
and
Ares Chat
(ares is really a free music downloading program but at the top there is a tab that says chat, it has some chatrooms

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I got a g/f! Thanx 4 all ur support everyone! :D
But, 2 more questions, how do I keep her? How can I make her happy?

You can..
-Dont lie
-Dont cheat
-Dont listen to what other people say, they could be lying
-Make sure she has a chance to speak before you mistake something
-Make her laugh
-If shes feeling bad stay by her and comfort her so that she knows you'll always care for her
-Dont rush things/ If she doesnt want to something dont force her to
-Be nice
-Dont blow plans off to hang with your friends

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GoodLuck
=D

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do girls boobs hips or anthing in that matter grow when they have sex.

Nope.

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do you think a 7 inch long dick is to small.

Umm no its above average...

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what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions?

Forever 21!! Omg they have the cutest clothes, yet they're so afordable.
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i dont know what a siggy is or how to make one and i really want to know help!!!!

It is your signature. Im sure you know how to make yours =D

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