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Stupid Picture
ok so here it goes.... me and my gf were hangin out in my room a couple weeks ago and we randomly decided to take a pic of her wit her top off and covering her nipples with her hands. i took it on my phone and had it for awhile. 2day when i got home from her house i had her call my aunt and left my phone in there. she comes in my room with the pic and yells at me for doing it and says thats y i dont trust u. she said she might tell her mom but that would ruin anything. i cant talk to my mom about it bc i never could and whenever i try she doesnt listen. wat should i do??
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Shame on you. If she didn't want you to or didn't know, why the hell would you do it?? Guys these days...
Well, okay, whatever, ill help you anyways. Let her cool down for a week and call her up to go somewhere. Take her there and explain why you did it. I would be surprised if you even could explain... Show her the picture and rip it in front of her. Tell her you're sorry for being a bastard.
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Didn't she know you were taking the picture though? Sounds like she did. If she did, then why would you delete it right away.. you know? And she won't tell her mom, because if she did, her mom would be mad at her too because she's the one that got undressed and got topless.. right? So, she won't tell her, she's just mad and is saying all this stuff to you. Let her cool down a bit and talk to her. Take her to your house and just sit her down and be like "I'm sorry that you got mad at that picture, but you knew that I was taking it, it's not like I'm going to show anyone, I don't want anyone seeing MY girlfriend naked. I respect you a lot and wouldn't do that to you. I don't understand why you're so mad at me. If you're really upset by it, then just say something and I'll delete it. I'm really sorry though." Just say something like that. I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox. Good luck hun! && everything will be fine!
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If anybody shouldn't trust anybody, you shouldn't trust her! She went through your phone! Maybe she even knew that it would still be there and she wanted to yell at you for it. She let you take the picture, so she shouldn't be complaining at all. Tell her if she had a problem with it she should have told you to delete it in the first place. This isn't an issue of trust, it's lack of communication. You didn't do anything wrong and she didn't do anything really that wrong either. What you should do is tell her how much you liked the picture and how pretty she is and everything. Then ask her if she wants you to delete it and delete it in front of her. Talk about it and tell her that you can't know exactly what she wants unless she tells you. Tell her to make sure she tells you what she wants so that misunderstandings and mistakes like this don't happen again. I hope everything gets straightened out and good luck!
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Wow, you're right. That wasn't the smartest thing to do.
She knew you were taking the picture didn't she? If so then she is as much at fault as you are. Saying she can't trust you because of that is a little wrong.
Maybe she thought you would delete it? Well, she should have realized that a guy is gonna want to keep it for awhile. You probably should have got rid of it but it is a natural thing that you would want to have it awhile.
I don't think she is going to mention it to her mom. She would probably be in hot water if she did. She was upset and mad about it but, she will probably get over it.
The only thing you can do is apologise. Tell her you love the way she looks and just couldn't make yourself delete it. Maybe buy her a rose or pick her some kind of flower. If you can't afford that, a nice love note would probably do the trick.
Good luck & be careful what you take pictures of. Anyone with any knowledge could see the photos you take with your phone. :)
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aWw!! just give her a little time to cool off..nd go to a movie or somethign w/ her nd then talk to her about it on your way home!!
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