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My name's Vicious, after my idol Sid Vicious. I have been told I give good advice, and I greatly enjoy doing so, so ask me for help.
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Are Zoo York and Enjoi good brand skateboards? I'm new to this and i don't want to have a crappy one. What are other good brands (besides Zero)? (link)
yes, they are both excellent brand skateboards. most name brand skate companies out there right now are pretty good, you just have to experiment and find which skate company you like the best. however, if you choose a board from any of the above three, you will have a good board.


does anyone know where i could get some hair dye like maybe blue,red,pink, or any other color? (link)
most beauty supply stores have a variety of hair dyes in bright colors, such as red, blue, pink, and green, however, they usually only come in temporary and semi-permanent colors. semi-permanent is alright if you only want the color for a month or so. also there are stores such as hot topic that will provide permanent hair colors, but usually only in purple and red. they will also give you more semi-permanent colors. websites are great places to purchase from if you dont mind buying online, i reccomend manic panic hair dye, its been around for over 20 years, is an excellent product, and provides you with a wide variety of hair colors.


where can i find some.
like quotes really wise people have said in the past.
thanks! (link)
three good websites are quotationspage.com,


sry if wrong catagory...

is sun in permenant my friend says it is but i dont think so?! THANKS! (link)
sun in is permanent. you spray it on your hair, and when it reacts with the heat from the sun it lightens your hair and makes it more blonde.


How can i dress more feminine/flirty. What are some good stores to shop in? (link)
there arent any particular stores that you need to go to if you want to dress feminine/flirty, it depends more on the pieces that you put on. skirts are feminine, and skirts that are right above the knees are flirty without overdoing it. wear form fitting shirts, but not ones that are extremely tight. try to avoid baggy clothing. putting on a little makeup helps a lot, and while heels are classic feminine look, flats and pumps can look nice too depending on the outfit they are worn with. purses and bags are good when they match what you are wearing, as are necklaces, rings, etc... it is difficult to name particular stores because you can find clothes like this almost everywhere. just make sure youre comfortable and confident with what youre wearing, and thats all that matters.


I have a weird question. Lets say one day you have a lot of variety of foods. Fruits, veggies, nuts, eggs, milk, cereal, etc. Then, by the end of the day you have a cookie or two. Would that be ok to do since it would be balancing it out? If you had a lot of nutrients & good foods throughout the day, does a treat hurt it? or does it balance it & not really do anything? Thanks!! (link)
eating something sweet is fine every now and then, especially if youre eating a large variety of foods, and have a healthy balance of foods. it doesnt neccessarily "balance" it out, but it is fine to have something small every day if you're eating healthy. just dont overdo the junk food and sweets.


I'm a 19 year old girl. Bear with me: this is long.

I've always been heavy, and I recently topped out at about 225 lbs. That was a month ago, and now I'm down to 208. I struggled with binge eating disorder from about age 10 until recently, so I was used to that. But now things are changing.

I started off by dieting. I started to lose some weight. Then I started to cut calories. I live with my boyfriend, so he got worried. I stopped cooking enough food for the both of us, and gave him most of it so that I didn't have to rationalize my not eating.

Now I've got a new job, and it involves a lot of exercise. I've been losing weight at the rate of 1-2 pounds a day since starting. I've been skipping meals so that I don't have to eat, saying that I'm not feeling well. When I do eat, I try to eat mostly salad, with very little else.

I'm weighing myself every day, almost obsessively. If I gain a half pound back, I make myself do an extra half hour on the treadmill, and cut my normal meal amount in half. I guess that's as close to purging as I get.

I noticed all of this today, because I was getting dizzy and nauseous while I was working, and had to stop.

My question, now that you have the background, is this:

Do I have an eating disorder, or is this just extreme dieting? If so, which one, because I'm really confused as to where to start with fixing things if I do, and getting onto a healthy weight loss path. I tried looking this up online, and the only one that really fit my behaviours was anorexia, which I don't have because I'm overweight.

Any help on the matter would be great. (link)
just because youre overweight doesnt mean you cant be anorexic. many anorexics start out weighing a lot, and then lose all the weight because they dont eat anything. it is difficult to say whether this is an eating disordeer or just extreme dieting, but either way it isnt good. exercise every day is good, as is cutting calories, but you should still be eating three meals a day. skipping meals is never good. especially if you skip breakfast, because that slows down your metabolism, making you burn calories slower. losing a pound a day is ok if youre exercising a lot, but you have to make sure youre getting the essentials your body needs, and eating enough food. as long as you make sure you eat three meals a day you should be ok. make sure you dont exercise too much, and cause youre body to break down.


Wow! Thanks for even looking at this. Well basically my life is in the crapper right now. In other words that are more understandable It SUCKS! Everyone is always telling me the same things. You are only 14 and everyone goes through it around your age or my fav! " Your life is not that bad" But yes it is though! My friends dont like me anymore and I dont have a boyfriend! Yes! I sound pathetic as hell but I am pathetic. I mean why does life have to be so damn hard. What made it this hard? Was it my fault? I sit in my room all day watching tv and I just cry because it sux! Everyone else has a boyfriend and friends that they can call and hang out with. Not me though! I just dont know how to make myself happy without having any friends! I mean I tell myself that this will pass over and one day everything wil get a lil bit better. And whats even worse is that I try to get A boyfriend but they dont like me and they use me then call me a whore and plus they always want another girl. They say I'm hott and I'm sweet and skinny but I dont feel that way anymore. Is this a sucky age or did I make my life this way? Cause I try to make things better and I try to make guys like me and notice me but that never works cause they always have a reason as to why they cant have a relationship with me! I cant take it anymore. And I've talked to everyone and they all tell me the same damn thing. Nothing works because at the end of the day I still have no friends and no boyfriend! I mean I'm nice! I'm not a bitch and I'm not that ugly. And everyone tells me I'm not mature enough to have a boyfriend but when I see everyone else thats not but like 1 year older than me have a boyfriend I cry because I feel like an outcast or like I dont belong in this world. Thats why I want to kill myself sometimes because what am I living for? Not myself because I suck at life. I try to play the game of life but it doesnt work ! does anyone know how to deal with my problem? (link)
well, it is always good to make new friends. try not to focus on finding a boyfriend so much as finding friends for now. there is a guy out there for you, and when the time is right he will show up. as for friends, if you are friendly and outgoing, you should have no problem making friends. if youve tried making friends at your school and cant, go somewhere else. join a club or sports team that isnt run at your school. join a dance class or an art class. find what you love to do. when youre doing what you love you are happy. thats just how it works. if you love to swim, then do that as often as possible. whatever you love, do it often and you will naturally be happier. just cuz you dont have any friends right now doesnt mean theres anything wrong with you. it means you need to go find better friends who will appreciate you. it could just be a phase you are going through, or maybe you have a good reason to be upset. whatever it is, as hard as this is to believe, IT WILL PASS. it always does. there are people out there who will value you, and there is a guy out there that is meant to be with you. you have value, and the world needs you, for whatever you may do. EVERYONE HAS A PURPOSE, INCLUDING YOU. you are here for a reason. dont throw that opportunity away. YOU ARE WORTH IT. if you ever need someone to talk to, email me. x_viciousxpunk_x@yahoo.com


for recommenations, do we HAVE to ask teachers? (link)
if it is a recommendation for an activity at school, you most likely have to ask teachers, guidance counselors, the principal and vice principal, and other school authorities. if it is a job recommendation or something of that sort then you can ask any adult figure that knows you.


I have self esteem issues. I've truly hated myself for a long time, and I'm just starting to like myself a little again.
I have these two friends, we'll call them B and A.
B. is really mad at me right now because I'm too "emo". Well, I've been trying to be happier, and the ONE slightly self degrading comment I made, she attacked me.
And my other friend A. who I thought would be on my side, seeing as how we've kind of got some stuff, due to make out sessions, and other weirdish stuff. I won't get into it, but she took B's side!!
I love both of them, but I don't know if I can love myself if I love them.
What do I do? (link)
well, you can look at this situation in one of two ways. your friend may have attacked you when you made a degrading comment about yourself because she loves you and doesnt like hearing you talk about yourself that way. she may have just been trying to emphasize that she wont let you tak about yourself that way. or you can look at it as your friend attacking you, and not realizing that you have been trying to appreciate yourself. if she knows that you have been trying to do better and still attacks you, then she isnt a good friend. if she hasnt realized, then she may not have done it intentionally. talk to her and explain that youve been trying to change, andd how hard it has been for you. if she still isnt treating you in a way that you think is helping you, then you shouldnt be friends with her, because she is doing nothing but making your situation worse.


hi. i would like to ask. How to ask a gal to a prom? i am kinda bad in asking. I am looking a proper way to ask. I have a gal that i wish to ask. But for the past months. I been asking her out, but she is too busy, and she said i can keep trying to ask her and she can reject.haha. I am really interested in asking her out. We never went out before. But we chat quite a lot. Sometimes on the phone. Sometimes msn. Now i have the chance that there is a prom coming. I would like to seek advice. She is age 16 this year. While i am 19 at college. She is pretty, mature gal (tough job). So i am requesting for your help. Thanks (link)
you could make her a cd of songs that describe how you feel about her, and then ask, or you could get her roses and ask. both of which would do well, girls like thoughtful or romantic gifts. just make sure you ask in person because anything other than that would be impersonal.


what is juvenile detention? Who can tell me a bit about it? (link)
juvenile detention is when a youth commits a crime that is considered harsh enough to need some type of jail time, and is sent to a juvenile detention facility. juvenile detention facilities are like really strict boarding schools, where delinquints go to do time.


does anyone know cool color names? like on hair dyes and crayons? is there a list out there? (link)
if you go to wikipedia and put in crayola crayon colors it will give you a list of every crayola crayon color created.


In the united states what are the real things that colleges look for i hear so many different stories..

do they look at your final exams?? regents grades?? final grades?? every single test score ?? what is it because im really curious (link)
it all depends on what college you are applying to. but all colleges look at interim grades and report card grades, your overall gpa, and any extracurricular activities you were in. (clubs, fundraisers, etc...)


would drinking nettles tea help allergies? (link)
it may, but something that would work better without using drugs and with no side effects is a new product called a Neti Pot. this has been seen on Oprah, and what it does is it gently rinses away allergens and mucus. you can find it at David's Natural Market, and probably online. good luck!


When you apply for a college, when they look at your grades etc. what is your GPA? I was just wondering...
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your GPA is your grade point average. on every report card it should show your GPA. this is a way of showing how good your grades are. 4 equals an "a" average, 3 equals a "b" average, 2 equals a "c" average, and 1 equals a "d" average. your GPA is calculated like this: for every "a" you get in a class you get four points, "b" is three points and so on. then you take the total number of points and divide it by the number of classes you have. this will give you your GPA.


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HELP! my dad doesnt like for me to get on sertan sites so i guess hez blocked them, and i cant get a connection ne where! even if i search it on google it instantly goes to this stupid message instead of the site...

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what the heck is goin on, and how do i get rid of this problem? (link)
im not sure whats going on, but i do have a suggestion for how to get around this. i would suggest using a website such as https://vtunnel.com which should let you through. good luck.


So I really needa lose weight. I'm not obese or fat but I'd be happier if I lost some weight. So my goal is around 20 pounds before school starts. Please help me...I needa know some exercizes I could do, foods I could eat. And any1 know whether jenny craig realy works?
Thanks anyways...
Btw I'm 15/f (link)
the secret to losing weight is that you need to burn more calories in a day than you are intaking. so if you are intaking 1,500 calories, you want to be burning a little bit more than that. any exercise will do fine, but you most likely want to choose exercises that burn more calories faster, for example, running over walking. drink a lot of water, not only is it good for you, some researchers say that it speeds up your meatabolism, helping you burn calories faster. try to stay away from foods that are high in sugar and fat. if your diet currently consists of a soda a day, and a lot of junk food, by cutting that food oout a lone you will drop a few pounds. good luck!


what are some songs about summer that ARENT rap or R&B? (link)
"the boys of summer" by the ataris, and "summer girls" by LFO.


im trying to compile some music which is up tempo and easy to dance or run to.listening to music while trying to get fit really helps so it has to be up beat and make me want to run dance etc. (link)
"invincible" by ok go, "milkshake" by kelis, and "beat my guest" by adam ant. hope that helps!!




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