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Prom. I need advice
hi. i would like to ask. How to ask a gal to a prom? i am kinda bad in asking. I am looking a proper way to ask. I have a gal that i wish to ask. But for the past months. I been asking her out, but she is too busy, and she said i can keep trying to ask her and she can reject.haha. I am really interested in asking her out. We never went out before. But we chat quite a lot. Sometimes on the phone. Sometimes msn. Now i have the chance that there is a prom coming. I would like to seek advice. She is age 16 this year. While i am 19 at college. She is pretty, mature gal (tough job). So i am requesting for your help. Thanks
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Honestly, it sounds to me like she doesn't like you and is making excuses. A lot of the time girls will say things like "I'm too busy" instead of flat out saying "I don't want to go out with you". She might consider the age difference to be a problem as well.
Also, since I'm assuming it's her prom, she probably should be the one to ask you.
But if you still want to...
Just wait til you guys are talking and somewhat alone and say "Will you go to prom with me?" She sounds kinda no-frills, so this approach will probably work better.
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ask her online if she's busy friday night because you have something to ask her. if she says she cant, say what about saturday, anytime. if she still rejects say sunday afternoon...just dont give up. take her to a nice restaraunt and make a card with the question in it. hope i helped (:
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you could make her a cd of songs that describe how you feel about her, and then ask, or you could get her roses and ask. both of which would do well, girls like thoughtful or romantic gifts. just make sure you ask in person because anything other than that would be impersonal.
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do it in a cute, original way. go all out. maybe send her some flowers to her house with a cute note asking her to go to prom with you. or show up at her house and leave something small that is signifacant to something you guys did together or something she likes with a note. be creative. one of my guy friends asked a girl in a really cute way you might want to try.
he picked her up to go to a movie. when they got out of the car he slipped a rose and a note saying prom? on the drivers seat. then he told her that he left his wallet in the car and asked her to go get it while he stood in line for tickets. when she went to get it she found the rose and the card.
it sounds like shes kind of iffy about you at this point. but what girl could say no if a guy does something really cute and nice for her? then when you go to prom with her, its your chance to really show her that your a good guy that she could see herself dating.
if you need tips on how to do that, drop one in my inbox. let me know how it goes (=
good luck!
sarah
well im not really sure what your trying to say here. but dont go through her friends, thats lame. and i know your probably busy on friday, but im sure you can make time to pick her up some flowers and write her a note that says: "three years has been long enough. i think its time we go out on that date. how about prom?" thats casual and not too obsessive, but sweet and hard to resist at the same time. if she still isnt responding to you, then sadly, its probably time for you to move on. i know that you dont want to hear it buut wasting your time with a girl thats not into will only make it hurt more. and you deserve better.
please let me know how it goes
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