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My xboyfriend just asked me out and told me he loves me still and it was very stupid of him to break up with me. i've found some one else, his best friend, but i dont want to hurt him.

i understand that you dont want to hurt him.. but you have to like whoever your heart says you do. tell him that you already found someone else and your sorry.. dont go out with your ex again just because you feel sorry for him

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what can i say beside "sorry" to make my friend forgive me for lying to him??? can some one help me please???? i really need to talk to him again but he will not listen to me and he will not even look at me any more!!! i cant take it!!! i really want him back as a friend!!!! thanks to anyone that can help me! and see i didnt mean to lie to him thanks anyway!

say" i was stupid.. i wasnt thinking and i promise you i would never do something like that again.. i really want us to be friends again" .. hope it helps

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ok my friend is like really selfish. and she is REALLY clingy. when she gives an example about something like a good singer she uses herself, and when i say like "or me" she says "o my god! just becaus i said im a good singer doesnt mean you have to turn it around on yourself!" i know im a way better singer than her. and she ALWAYS calls me a fat ass. she also always brags about how skinny she is by saying "o my god look how fat i am in my gym suit!" and i give her a really mean look and tell her to shut her mouth and stop bragging and she always laughs like im kidding and i tell her im not and she says "o my god! just because i think im fat doesnt mean you have to say im bragging!" she exercises soooooooo much!please help i dont wanna kill our frendship

the girl is a bitch.. just ignore her and make new friends.. if she asks you why your not talking to her say because i hate the way you act around me.. shes not a good friend and if you dont like her.. dont stay friends with her until she changes

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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not?

i think you should be friends with her if you like her.. just dont try pot or cut yourself.. you should be a good friend and get her help.. maybe all she needs is a friend

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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea?

yea it is.. but I do know people who have lost it at 13. its still not a good idea.. there are so many risks that your not ready to have at 13..and you could regret it for the rest of your life.. Id wait til 16 or 17 at the youngest

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Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
confused..

start making out.. then touch him all over his body.. start going down his pants.. if he stops you he isnt ready..if he doesnt.. well keep going :-P haha hope it helps

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I have been sick since last night...I ate left overs and about 3 V-day Chocolates. Well I feel as if I want to throw up and yet and I can't and I occaisionaly get some pains on my side and of stomach. My mother said I could have Appendicitas. (Spelling?) In my family Appendix, is a big deal. (My family has a history)
I have tried to google info but perhaps some of you could tell me some main things that go along with appendixcitas.

Thanks

i had the same thing before.. the day after christmas i threw up.. i got better then on new years i had horrible pains that would come across my stomach.. and stayed in my right side.. i couldnt walk. the pains made me throw up again. i had the symptoms of appendicitis.. so i got an ultrasound but everything was ok.. you probably just have a tummy ache and possibly cramps like i had

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I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks.

i know how you feel.. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont because i dont need one.. and you dont either. you feel more free when your single and its fun flirting.. theres no right time to start dating.. when u really like someone and you want to date them you date them.. but at 14 you should be open.. hope it helps

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Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).

you shouldnt lead justin on.. dump him. even if michael doesnt like you it will be fun to flirt and maybe hell end up liking you... but if you dont like justin dont go out with him anymore.. hope it helps

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Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more??

he probably got a little shy after telling you he liked you.. but since he does.. make the first move. start talking to him and ask him what hes doing this weekend. hope it helps

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Hey yall i jus got bangs and boy i hate them they arnet like the ones that go all the way across your forehead. they are the ones where u have a part down themiddle and there are two on each side i then they look bad and i cant wait for them to grow out but until then i need cute lil hair styleing tips or ways to hide them! any advice

brush them back and put your hair in a high ponytail.. or push them back with headbands... it wont take long for them to grow.. i got long bangs too and didnt like them that much.. but when they grew a little they looked better and i just put them off to the side... or part your hair on a side and not down the middle... hope it helped :-)

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