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Hi, I am JenniferI am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥
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ok i know this is reallly weird and random but my class today started talking about it and ive been curious about it since we began but is it true that "Steve" from blues clues died from a drug overdose and that whole "going off to college" thing he made it up so he wouldnt have to tell lil kids that watch his show the truth ???
please im soo curious !
I've went to a helpful site that tells you about rumors like this and it told me that it's false.
Go here for proof:
http://www.snopes.com/radiotv/tv/bluesclues.asp
Isn't it weird what people think up??
-Jenny C
So, I like this guy, okay? He's really sweet and cute and so nice and everything... but there's a problem... I already have a boyfriend. Don't start calling me a slut and everything but my boyfriend is starting to be really... boring. I knew him only for two days when he asked me out. Should I dump him or not?? If I shouldn't, tell me why I have to go pretend to like a guy I don't! It's torture......... =(
What should I do??
Well, if the romance dies out between you and your boyfriend, what's the point in going out with him? Pointless, isn't it? So, of course, dump him. But don't be harsh. Just go, "Hey, sorry, but I don't think this relationship is goingvery well. You seem really nice as a friend, but as a boyfriend, I think someone else would be better. I don't want to hurt you feelings. I understand if you hate me, but I hope it works out for you..."
This other guy seems like a better boyfriend, so go for it! Hang out with him a lot of times and be very affectionate. Support him at his games if he's a basketball player or whatever, and be really sweet. Show him you like him and he'll get totally hooked on you!!
Tell me everything!
-Jenny C
I'm hanging out with him today and I'm 14 and hes 16 so Last time when i hung out with him it was totally silent and It was because I was so nervous I didn't want him to think I was stupid or anything and I guess he was the same way.
but I really don't want that to happen again tonight. he said he was going to be "all out" this time but I'm not sure If I will since it does take me a couple times to talk to someone a lot after meeting them especially when its someone I really like.
I suck at starting conversations and since he said hes going all out today well I want to be the one to start the conversations as well because I don't want to be known at shy and boring because I'm not.
When I talk I always say whats On my mind and I think of weird things sometimes haha so I don't want to creep him out.
like I just ask very very random questions about things.
That is so like me!
But maybe this guy will think this random side of you is cute. Besides, he's probably as much nervous as you are, even if he said he was going "all out". He's probably putting up a question titled, "This one girl..." ...Wouldn't that be freaky?!
If he likes you, I think he should like you for who you are, so be yourself. Don't get a little too carried away. Act sweet towards him and show him that you're not boring. Besides, I think being your weird self is better than being boring, right??
Tell me everything!!
-Jenny C
i was baking a cake for my christmas party and my neice asked me if she could dip her finger in it and i said no. She runs downstairs and tells my sister a whole different story, while crying, and my sister comes marching upstairs saying
"Did you hurt her feelings?"
i said "No, she just asked me..."
she said "Why do you always have to be so mean jane".
then my neice comes marching up the stairs with tears running down her face and crying. They wrap their arms around eachother, and go downstairs. I tries to tell her what happened, but my neice insisted on her story. I need help. And this isnt the first time she's done it.
BTW The advice for "Stage fright" went well, i rocked it!
-Jane
Oh... my... gosh... SO like my younger sister with my Mom!
Well, this is how I solved it. I wrote a letter.
You should write a letter similar to this:
Mom,
Okay, I know you love that darling little neice of ours, but she may not be so darling as you thought. I have no idea what she says to manipulate your mind into thinking she's a sweetie, but here's what really happened:
The angel asked me if she could dip her finger in the cake. I, supposedly the devil, said, "No."
Devious of me, isn't it? No.
I don't know what that angel of yours that you always defend says to you, but I think it's completely unfair or you to take her side without listening to what I have to say. It's unfair, okay?
Next time, I'll let the angel dip all five of her fingers into the cake frosting, how about that? The cake will be messy, but that apparently doesn't matter, does it?
I just wish you'll listen to me more than her.
From, Jane..
Tape the letter onto her bedroom door or hand it to her personally or something. Tell her, "Please read it, okay?" Then maybe it'll work out..
Tell me everything about it!!
-Jenny C
I have been dating my boyfriend about 2 years now.anyhow well we are really really close,and I am completely in love with him..I mean never could fall deeper. I have known him like 6 years and dated him for 2 of them..and well its like a lot of my friends say I am too clingy to him and do not want to hang out with me anymore..what do i do?
That's so RUDE of your friends to say that!!
But maybe you are being a little clingy...
I suggest you go to your friends and ask them how exactly you are being too clingy to him. If they tell you of what you think is a good reason, then try to hang out with your friends a little more after apologizing, but don't abandon your boyfriend. Tell your friends that you're still going to go out with your boyfriend because you have really intense feelings for him. You like him a lot, right? So tell them.
If they're reasons for calling you clingy is not a good reason, tell them so. Tell them they're being unfair and that you like them as much as you like your boyfriend, so that they should just stop being like this. Tell them they should understand. Tell them you don't have to be with them every second of your life. You wish there could be a y that you could be with your boyfriend and friends at the same time, but there isn't! So they should perfectly understand... and if they don't, they're not worth even a minute of your time.
Tell me if all goes well... or not so well!!
-Jenny C
I've always been kind of a drifter. I had 2 groups of friends "the immature" and "the popular". I've tryed to decide who I wanted to be friends with. I decided the popular group because they like the things I like and are more matture. But my old friends don't want to let me go. They keep inviting me over but I say I cant because im already going to my other friends houses. And at school im taking to my friends and they all run up to me and are like "Hey whats up!?! Why dont you talk to us." So me and my friends just walk away. I don't feel guilty. HOW DO I DROP THEM? Because they're trying to stick to me like glue. I seriosly just dont want to talk to them. because if I say "Hey." when im walking they try to link arms and tell me about their life.
Do you have a reason why you want to chose just one? Why not hang out with both? I don't understand why you can't have both as friends. Is it because the "popular" group doesn't like them...? Can you explain a little more?
If you really want to hang out with the popular group only for a really good reason, I suggest you tell your friends, "Look, I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I think we shouldn't be friends any more. Because, __________________
oaky so im dating this guy for what seems like the 20th time.im not telling anyone bcz all of my friends hate him. but i also have to decline on dates bcz im secretly involved. btw...im 14 and hes 16.well the story on him is he told a bunch of his football buddies just how intimate we had gotten. but i know he has changed bcz we have been going out again for about a month. but he didnt ask for sex once. so that is a big improvement on his part...bcz believe me...he is a class A pig. but i really like him. like...almost love. he's amazing. and im not shallow. i dont look for abercrombie models. hes kinda a big kid. but sweet as candy. very wealthy.not gonna lie. he does so much for me. his car is amazing. lol. and he treats me like a princess.okay...back to it. should i tell my friends and pray for the best that i know i wont get..risk losing all of my friends for someone that i could quite possibly marry?(ya i know fat chance) i love him. he loves me. my friends should support me right?or am i just a lost cause and i should cut all of my hair off drop out and be home schooled? btw...i wont really go to those extremes. lol
If your friends were really friends, they'd understand. My friends go out with a lot of guys I'd like to kill, but it never lowered my respect and affection for my friends.
It really depends on WHY they hate this guy. If this boyfriend of yours made one of your friends cry or hurt one of your friends in some way, then you have to understand if they still hate him and get mad at you for it. It makes you seem like a disloyal friend. Its like you don't care if someone hurts them, just as long as he likes you, you're fine! And that is just plain heartless.
But if it's for another reason, like how he looks or how he's not funny or something, then take a chance. Tell them how you like this guy.
Calmly tell them, "Okay, I like him, a lot. He's really sweet and loving and I seriously think he's THE ONE for me. Before you yell at me or anything, I just want to say that I really wish this won't ruin our friendship, because that's important to me too. Really important to me. In fact, I've been keeping this a secret so I won't lose you girls. Then I realized if you girls were my real friends, you would support me and feel happy for me. I want to see if you girls are my real friends."
Tell me how it works out!!
-Jenny C
okay here is the thing my boyfrend is E and my homeboy if F ok. well im not so sure if i still want to date my boyfriend because well he doesnt trust me and on the other hand my homeboy F is really great but i think i want to be more then his homegirl and i can tell that he does too becuase he practically told me! What should i do?
______sign______confused girl
From confused girl,
It'll be wrong to dump E just for another guy. But then again, F seems sweeter and he seems to share the same feelings you have for him.
Hang out with F a lot. But don't make out or date or anything like that... yet. Because a person might be really great to be with as a homeboy, but not so right as a boyfriend. He might not be so great at dating as you might've thought, so just be around him around him a lot and pretend he's your boyfriend and how it would be like.
If you really like this F guy, talk to your boyfriend. Tell him you don't like how he doesn't trust you and everything. As a couple, you guys are supposed to trust each other, right? Well E doesn't trust you, so what kind of relationship is that? Tell E you should see other people. Tell him to find someone he actually trusts.
I think you and F will totally go together... but if it doesn't work out, don't worry. Remember, there are A LOT more cute guys out there as your options. You just have to be yourself and, most importantly, flirt! ;)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
im bi, ok well this time i have to say life sucks cant find anyone im about to give up on life and tring to find anyone for myself sucks seems like theres know one out there for me any advice???
Don't give up on life. You never know what it has to offer. You could be missing out on something great. That one guy you were looking for may be scheduled to come to you any time. Just stop being so disheartened and keep on trying. Be affectionate, sweet, and funny: guys like that. Just be anything but dead, okay? =) I'm sure a lot of people would be sad if you leave the world.
Ok ive seen your advice on alot of questions and I want this answered ASAP and I can tell your online iand ive loves your advice so can you answer this?
I came back from basketball tryouts today and im really soar. Like my legs, my back, my arms. I thought it might be fun to have like a mini spa. Any ideas for relaxing bath ideas and like how to get my body less tense? and maybe some homemade facial ideas? I was also planning maybe to give myself a manicure of pedicure any ideas on that? Anyother like spa-related things I can do are very much appreiciated. Thanks alot
Banana Moisture Mask
Ingredients:
one ripe banana
1 Tbs. honey
1 Tbs. plain yogurt
Mash the banana with a fork and add the honey and yogurt. Put into face and leave on for 15 minutes.
The bananas provide intense moisture and firms the skin, while honey is soothing and nourishing.
There's a lot more tips on:
http://www.hgtv.com/hgtv/ah_personal_care_bath_body/0,1800,HGTV_3144,00.html
I have a really really important question. It's gonna be long,,sorry, but plz answer!! I will rate.
My best friend told me her deepest darkest secret. Her secret was that she was raped by her cousin as a child.(7 yrs old.) He actually had sex with her, but she doesn't think that he "popped her cherry". She didn't really know what was going on...and she told her parents about it and everything when it happend. (we are 14 now) My question is: is she a virgin?
I'm sorry to say she's no longer a virgin. =(
And ignore the person below, I perfectly understand why you care. She's your cousin, duh. =)
14/m
right im a health freak i eat right i know how to build muscle i hot a* n all fo my p.e work and everything go to the gym every nite and i am the under 15 country bloody record holder for triple jump and sprinting im just gettin pissed off because loads of stupid people in my year keep saying im on steroids its been going on for 2 years what can i do to shut them up i cant fight them because i hate fighting and i cant reason with them and the teachers wont do naything and neither will my parents so im really stuck i thinking of quiting if it will stop them bulyying me any ideas?
Don't give up your fit body over retarded people. Your friends and the people you really care about know you're not on steroids, right? They're the ones that matter, not gossip-blabbering and rumor-starting idiots.
Just ignore them. They're just jealous because they're either: fat, too skinny, pimple-ful, weak, short, or whatever. They probably want a body like yours, okay? Don't respond to their insults with any eye-rolls or stuff like that. Act like you didn;t even hear them.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
14/m
right iv been goin out with my girlfreind for 9 weeks now and its been amazing i can chat to her about anything weve never had an argument or anything its mad i ring her every nite and we talk for hours i see her nearly every day is this normal lol!! its crazy is it love or am i jus geting everything muddled up. i really am crazy about her is it normal lol?? advice would be great thanx:)
That's really sweet, but you don't get serious into love yet. You guys seem to be a cute couple and all, but don't think about the future or marriage or anything like that. Just be happy with what you have now, and being with her. I think it's SO cute and romantic of you to say something like this!
-Jenny C
No guys like me.
I'm not fat, but im like the furthest thing from skinny.
Blonde hair and blue eyes.
Ive had the occasional liking me for a day thing, a long time ago.
Now, it seems as though all the guys that used to be my friends ..hate me!Or they dont talk to me like they used to , they would just say something kinda mean .
I know your gonna say, wait and the right guy will come along but if a guy does come along, he just leaves!
Theres one guy that likes me ,but i dont really like him.
please help!!!
Well, I don't understand how you could not be fat, but be the furthest thing from skinny. Not insulting you or anything... but it just didn't make any sense.
But to the problem: It depends on your age. If you're over 16, this is the kind of thing you should be worrying about. But if you're under, no serious relationships should be going on.
If you are over 16: Talk to your guy friends about stuff. If they pop up with something rude, ask them what made the say something like that. Maybe it's not your appearances, but something negative about your personality that's bothering them that you need to fix but didn't notice. Everyone has tons of problems that they don't know that they have.
Hang out with your guy friends. Be affectionate to them if you like them. In other words: Flirt.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
My entire AP Environmental Science class is filled with slackers [it is known to be a slack class] but we all found out that it isn't. Everyone has an 80 or lower, and only about 3 people have an 80. So basically most of the class doesn't even have a B. We took a test today, and like every other test, everyone failed it.
The final is going to have old test questions on it, which will be really hard because our teacher doesn't make the tests. She uses the college textbook for the questions.
My question is, how likely is it that she would let us all pass with an A or B? It seems like she would curve the grades so we would get A's and B's, but she hasn't curved any test/quiz grades all semester.
I think it's most likely.
I really encourage you that you study and STOP being a slacker. It'll get you nowhere. I know I'm talking like one of those overly strict, lame, annoying Mommies, but if you want to pass school so you won't end up being a hobo collecting pennies in a rusty can, or a disrespected janitor, I suggest you do so.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
i had to go out of sate due to a death in my family for about a month, my boyfriend has been asking odd could he be cheating
I don't know your boyfriend, so I can't say "Yes, obviously!" or "No way!"
But I can tell you how you can find out.
Ask him why he is acting odd. Don't ask if he was cheating on you or not, because if he didn't, he'll feel horrible that you do not trust him. Tell him how he had been acting odd. Tell him that you can trust him. If he is honest, he will admit it. Study how he acts towards other girl.s
If he did cheat on you, dump him. There are other guys, and you probably deserve better. If you get heartbroken over the guy, remember that you aren't a slut that goes around with a million boyfriends and that you're better than him.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Hi,
My name is Carosita and I'm 22 years old and heterosexual.
I had an experience with a lesbian friend one night where we both drank too much and we ended up dancing sensually to the song as long as you love me by the Backstreet Boys and that my other friend taped it.
Also, we went me and her to drink coffee and since we were really drunk, she ended up holding my hand all the way.
Ever since that night, I had dreams of kissing her and sleeping with her but I know that I'm not her type and I'm heterosexual cause i still like boys but haven't found the right one.
My question is that whether that experience that night with my friend could have a repercussion on me on whether I could be a lesbian or not
carolina
It could be that you are lesbian because of your dreams, but it really is up to you. Did you get any feelings of intense affection when your friend held your hands? When you were having those dreams, were you enjoying them? If you did, you are most likely bisexual.
If you have no such feelings for this friend, you simply aren't. Since you were mostly drunk at the time, you have to see by hanging out with her to see if you get any strange emotions centered on her.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
At night I get REALLY scary dreams and I wake up terrified.In every dream I die. Not a peacefull death I mean murdered.Well I do't know what triggering these dreams im not watching scary movies and I havent resently, and before i go to sleep I eat a sandwhich.I've had about 4 diffrent dreams but have the same dreams multiple times.The one that accurs the most is the one I hate the most.I'm trapped in this house a house with like 9 other kids at any age.In the house we have to find a way out of the house and the guy that has us there planted maps and clues on how to get out.So kids are ripping things and its just a mad house but theres one girl i think 7 she has herself huddled in a corner crying, I try to talk to her and she never talks back she only looks up with these huge eyes and I can't help her.The first time I had this dream I never saw her and I just ventured off on my own and when I entered this room I woke up and I knew that I was killed.
Another dream I'm in this cage at the bottom of the ocean and im locked in it and i have to find the certain key to unlock myself and the other kids get out long before me and the same girl that was huddled in the corner in the house.I have never seen this girl before and in every dream she's there and I feel so helpless cause I cant even help myself.
This question is really long but theres more.
I dont know if there a similarity to my dreams to my actual life.I stayed back last year and I have no friends now and when I go to school im in hell and i feel helpless there too so i just wanna know why im having these dreams and how to prevent them from happening.
I'm sorry its so long but if you would please help me.
Talk to your parents about those nightmares. Tell them you feel helpless and need support. Tell them about the hell school. It's possible that there's a connection to your dreams and your life. You need to tell your parents about this problem. They could help. This'll probably sound cheesy but here goes: Your parents love you as their child no matter how many years you get left back. They'll try to help.
Put on some music before you sleep. Read a book. If you have a TV in your room, avoid the scary movies or dramas and watch the comedies. Hug your favorite stuffed animal, if you still have one.. I do! =) If you have a pet, invite it to your bed if it's allowed there. Take a nice, warm shower before you sleep. Do something to distract you about the negativities of your life.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
last year we had a big clique it was me ,my fav friendjasmine,brandi,serean,christa,kerra,chelsi,ferrin,neri,and thats it.this year is different neri,chelsea,serean moved away and kerra found a new group and ferrin has 2nd lunch so its me brandi jasmine and christa.Jasmne was my best friend since the third grade and we are now in the 8th.the clique was ok at first then i started to go by jasmines house almost every ek end and we would tak about all the fun things that happened and our little inside jokes we had and christa and randi never said nothing at the lunch table so one day jus stopped eating lunch with us when i asked bandi why she said we dont never know what you two be talking about half of the time and now they sit with other freinds i think they are jelous becase they didnt have fun with us what do you think their problem is?
Christa and Brandi could be jealous... or they could just be mad that you guys are having fun without them. They seem to be thinking, "Well they're having their little inside jokes and cracking up about something we weren't a part of, so what the hell! They don't need us any more."
Personally, I think it's unfair of you to be spending more time with Jasmine than anyone else. I think you're making your other friends feel like dirt.
If you just really of Jasmine as your best friend and everything, just don't leave them out when you guys are in lunch. You two can have your own little fun, but have fun with them as much. Talk about Brandi's hot crush or maybe make fun of that dictator-like math teacher of Christa's or something. I think you should apologize and tell them how important they are to you.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
15/f
My best friend, Justin, has liked me for 3 years. We went out 4 times 3 years ago but things didn't work out. I like him a lot and he likes me. But here's the problem: My boyfriend of 7 months dumped me 3 months ago. Over those 7 months, my boyfriend had become my bestfriend. Now that he dumped me, all we do is fight. I don't think I could bear loosing another best friend.
Another problem: I don't want to be commited. I'm only in 10th grade. Now is not the time to be tying myself down with one person, just to get hurt.
Another problem: I have feelings for a few boys at my school (Justin and I go to different schools).
He wants to go out sooo bad. And we have 'heart to heart' talks like .. every night.
I really don't know what to do!
-Beth
Give this guy a chance. You might be risking a lot, and might end up losing more than you got, but think of it this way: you never know how good things could turn out. By turning him down, you could be missing out on something totally worth your time and care. And if in the end, things don't turn out too well, life will offer a lot more in the future. And remember, "For every girl with a broken heart, there's a guy with a gluegun.." =)
And it's not a very bad thing that you feel for other guys at your school. One of them could be an option for you if things go wrong with Justin.
Be affectionate!
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C