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our clique blew up in our face!!!!!!
last year we had a big clique it was me ,my fav friendjasmine,brandi,serean,christa,kerra,chelsi,ferrin,neri,and thats it.this year is different neri,chelsea,serean moved away and kerra found a new group and ferrin has 2nd lunch so its me brandi jasmine and christa.Jasmne was my best friend since the third grade and we are now in the 8th.the clique was ok at first then i started to go by jasmines house almost every ek end and we would tak about all the fun things that happened and our little inside jokes we had and christa and randi never said nothing at the lunch table so one day jus stopped eating lunch with us when i asked bandi why she said we dont never know what you two be talking about half of the time and now they sit with other freinds i think they are jelous becase they didnt have fun with us what do you think their problem is?
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Oh my God!
The girls blew up?!
Are you alright?
I think they are jealous pancake butts.
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well first of all, cliques are never a good idea. you need to be open to meeting new people and making new friends, because when things like this happen, your screwed. theres nothing wrong with being closer to certain girls, but watch out that you don't exculde other people. it sounds to me like you and jasmine made your own clique, apart from your other friends. and thats totally ok, just don't bring up things personal between the two of you when thier around. It opens up your clique and lets you stay close to all your friends.
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Dear Clique,
It's normal that this will happen, you get closer with someone in your clique than some of the other people are, it is most likely them just getting annoyed because they honestly don't ever know what you two are talking about, just try toning it downa notch and try including the whole clique. Sorry may sound harsh but true.
-Beanie
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Christa and Brandi could be jealous... or they could just be mad that you guys are having fun without them. They seem to be thinking, "Well they're having their little inside jokes and cracking up about something we weren't a part of, so what the hell! They don't need us any more."
Personally, I think it's unfair of you to be spending more time with Jasmine than anyone else. I think you're making your other friends feel like dirt.
If you just really of Jasmine as your best friend and everything, just don't leave them out when you guys are in lunch. You two can have your own little fun, but have fun with them as much. Talk about Brandi's hot crush or maybe make fun of that dictator-like math teacher of Christa's or something. I think you should apologize and tell them how important they are to you.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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Jealousy.....that's the one thing that can end anything. It can end relationships, friendships, even families. It's not their problem. Have you thought of all the reason why it could've been your fault? You need to think about that first before you accuse them. I'm not saying you're wrong but I feel you need to sit down with them and ask them why they feel its you and jasmine fault and you and jasmine tell them why you think it's their fault? Maybe something will be heard that you never thught was a reason why your clique "blew up"
Hope this helped
Briana
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