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i had to go out of sate due to a death in my family for about a month, my boyfriend has been asking odd could he be cheating
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yes, ask him about it
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Of course he could be cheating. He could also be a mobster. Or have turned into a purple lemur.
None of us here are telepathic. We give advice; we don’t stare into crystal balls.
My advice to you is you keep your wits about you and your eyes and ears open. You have likely had a difficult and stressful month and his ‘odd’ behavior could simply be in response to that, or even something completely different in his life.
Just because something ‘could’ happen doesn’t mean it has, or that it will. Cut your guy some slack and talk your feelings out with him. You’ll either discover what is bothering him or you’ll start to realize just how little you trust him. Even if he hasn’t cheated, if you really can’t have that little iota of faith in him and believe he has been faithful, then you really shouldn’t be in the relationship anyways.
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OK, the person below me is an idiot, how has he been acting differently? How long have you been together? Do you trust him? There is a possibility he is cheating on you, but what reasons do you have to believe that he is? Has he cheated before? What I think you should do is talk to him bout how u feel, without making accusations. Hopefully this will help you =]
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I don't know your boyfriend, so I can't say "Yes, obviously!" or "No way!"
But I can tell you how you can find out.
Ask him why he is acting odd. Don't ask if he was cheating on you or not, because if he didn't, he'll feel horrible that you do not trust him. Tell him how he had been acting odd. Tell him that you can trust him. If he is honest, he will admit it. Study how he acts towards other girl.s
If he did cheat on you, dump him. There are other guys, and you probably deserve better. If you get heartbroken over the guy, remember that you aren't a slut that goes around with a million boyfriends and that you're better than him.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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you didn't really provide enough information, and none of us can know for sure whether he's cheating or not. yes, it could be possible he is cheating, but it is like that in every relationship. it's always possible that you're being cheated on. that's where the element of trust is very important. do you trust your boyfriend? has he cheated on you before? were you really close/in love? did you talk to him alot while you were away? there are alot of things you need to ask yourself. if your really worried about it, you should talk to him. if your close enough you'll be able to talk to him about it. he may get defensive becaause he may think your accusing him, but be calm/nice about it.
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