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Q: Hey. I'm so close...so close to killing myself. Everyday I have to FIGHT not to, its the hardest thing i've ever done. My mom knows... im seeing 3 colnsulars.. but nothing helps. Nothing at all makes me want to live anymore. It hurts to talk, it hurts to smile... I've stopped doing everything i used to love. Nothing can make me happy. I don't want to hurt my friends though, their the only ones keeping me from..ehh. If you cant help me, please do..
if the only reason you live is for your friends, then talk to them about it. im sure thety would love to help you. if you dont feel comfy talking to people you know for the fear they will judge you, talk to me. i will try to help you even though im not sure i know how. please dont do what you're thinking of doing!
~Maegan~
my e-mail is baby_girl3895@yahoo.com

Q: Today at Cheerleading camp we have to dress like the 80's people did and i have no idea what they wore...i cant go out and buy anything or nothing though...do you guys have any quick and easy ideas??.....thanks! ill rate 5 if i get an answer before 8:30 a.m. (thats when i have to be there.)
put your hair in a funky ponytail. wear something with a lot of sequins. most people wore like flapper dresses.
~Maegan~

Q: What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!
most people say about 17-18.
~Maegan~

Q: i dont know if this in the right catagory but oh-well

I shave every other shower and after i shave my legs are really itchy. is that normal?

thanks
you might want to get moisturizing soap or shaving cream.
~Maegan~

Q: What does the phrase "wearing your heart on your sleeve" mean?
this means that you get your feelings heart easily and you get upset really easily.
~Maegan~

Q: Okay, for the past..6 years my sister and I have been trying to get a dog. But all my mom says is no. I don't think my dad would mind just as long as it didnt shed. She Court [[my sister]] and I have found numerous types of dogs that are SO cute AND don't shed. All my mom says is I'll consider it. It's on all of our Christmas/Birthday lists but nothing happens. We want a dog sooo bad. Please help! And by the way, I've tried to say I'll take care of it..that didnt work either =( I RATE HIGH
chihuahuas dont shed. they are very lovable too. if she doesnt want to buy you a new one because its very expense, adopt one from a rescue. i work with a rescue called Chi.P.P. in louisiana. they have rescue groups all over devoted especially to chihuahuas. go to petfinder and look some up in your area. if you live close by louisiana or just want to look, here's my rescue's site:
http://www.petfinder.org/shelters/LA92.html
hope you rescue and adopt a dog.
hope i helped. good luck.
~Maegan~
p.s. for a better chance to give your mom a guilt trip into getting one is to find out when they have adoption days and take her to look at them.

Q: hey.... i really like this boy... but i dont think he has a CLUE! i like REALLY like him... but i dont know what to do! please help me!
you should tell him how you feel or drop him clues or hints. if he doesnt pick up on it, he doesnt have a clue for sure.
~Maegan~

Q: hey um yea i think i have a um like a-38 bra size but im not sure and i dont no how to find out what i am and i want to no SO bad. but i think that is about rite. & compared to my friends, thats NOTHING & when we go out somewhere i feel TOTALLY left out cuz guys tend to look at them and leav me out (or so i feel) i want to no how i can get my boobs to look bigger, but i don't want to ask my mom anything like that (i dont like asking or discusing stuff like that with her) PLEASE help me PLEASE! i think im desprate

thanks
as far as finding your size, you could go to a store and go to the bra depertment. when you're there ask someone to measure you and they will help you find your size. if you want to look bigger, you could buy a push up bra or a padded one. talk to your friends or a closer family member like a cousin your age about these kind of things. hope i helped.
~Maegan~

Q: hey wats up hows it going homeie g
nothin's up.
~Maegan~

Q: hey. i babysit this cute lil boy who is four. he is very good and i want to have a nice way to reward him for helping me alot. he helps clean the table and goes potty by himself. does anybody know anything i could give him or treat him to when he is good?
you could bring him special games to play or you could reward him by watching his favorite movie. if he likes to color let him draw for a while as a treat. if you wanna give him candy, you could give him suckers or gummies. you could take him outside to play f you are allowed to go out the house. hope i helped.
~Maegan~

Q: I would like to reward him with a special treat but i don't know any candy this kid likes. do you guys know of anything sweet for a 4 year old? please help! i rate high!
my little brothers and cousins loved suckers when they were that age. just make sure you dont get ones with tootsie roll or gum in them without asking his parents if he can have that. hope i helped.
~Maegan~

Q: Does any bodyd knwo nay really good face products??? Beside proavticte...and that they worked for you?
clearisil has worked really well for me.
~Maegan~

Q: the eye docotr gave me lubricant drops for ym eye and I am out whats something I can get like at wal-mart thats the same?
you could get opti-free, bausch and lomb products, amo, renu, or the walmart brand. all of them work pretty much the same. you just have to pick the one that you like when you get there. all of the brands are pretty close in price.
~Maegan~

Q:
you can go to www.seventeen.com or ym.com.
~Maegan~

Q: umm where can you buy a ouija board..?!? and how much are they?!
you can get them at toys r us. they r about 10-15 dollars.
~Maegan~

Q: Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do?
you should talk to the guy thats mad at you and get to the bottom of the problem. even if he wont talk to you keep trying. if he still wont give you his time, hes not worth the trouble. if you need more help, leave me one in my inbox or instant messenge me on AIM at maepela321.
~Maegan~

Q: ok yes ik that this user name has been used before for my sisters questions but my name is krissy and i have a question to ask and i don't want to make up a screen name...

any ways im going into 7th grade and i want to wear padded bras because when i try them on they seem more comfortable but my mom said that they nmake my boobs look to big...but i think it looks good. i really want to get a padded bra but im scarerd to ask my mom if i can buy one...by the way i am a B-34 is that big for a 13 year old? and is wearing a padded bra bad for my age?

thanx
Krissy 13
if thats what you feel comfy in do it. B 34 is not big for a 13 yr. old. you're lucky thats your size.
~Maegan~

Q: Who thinks that this site should be for helping people, not senslessly being jerks? Say I.
I do.
~Maegan~

Q: I have a problem. With my jansport backpack, I have 7 folders and notebooks, and I cant seem to fit all of them. The backpack is pretty good sized, but I mean, I can only fit my binder (medium sized),7 folders, and like, 3 100 pg notebooks. What should I do? I mean, dont just tell me to try to fit everything in there and then try to zip it. Believe me, I tried that. So..what should I do? Is there anything I can do??
you could tak out your binder and hold it. that shouldmake you be able to fit your other notebooks.
~Maegan~

Q: hey is there anything i can put on my profile. something unique or different. I have like song lyrics and quotes. Funny inside jokes between me and my friends. I have a few other stories on my profile. my aim sn is modeltownerfan but i am just wondering if there is any different things i can do 2 my profile 2 make it look well "unique" ill rate high for good answers
you could go to websites and put specializd words that describe you. you could also put pics or music videos in your profile. if you r able too, you could put music in yur different pages for your profile.
~Maegan~

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