By the time people are around 20, do you recon they expect sex as part of a relationship?
Well it all depends on how your relationship is going. If sex is the main thing in a relationship then its not really considered one. If you both feel its good and its the tight time then you can consider it but sex shouldnt be what the whole relationship is about. HI hope I helped you
Bianca
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My best mate has a huge crush on this guy and has had done for nearly 2 years, its making her depressed because he doesnt like her but she cant stop fancying him. How can i help her?
Thats really hard. See you have to shopw her that there is more than just him out there. You need to keep her away from the subject of him. Go have fun to get him off her mind. Its his loss that hes missing out. She shouldnt wait for him. And mabye if she stops showing shes intrested in him mabye he'll start to be attracted to her. Guys love it when we play hard to get. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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My period started early today and im going shopping tomorrow!! It wouldnt be a problem or anything but i have really heavy periods and the 2nd day is always the heaviest. Tomorrow is gonna be the 2nd day! im not calling it off because i cant let my friends down and ive wanted to get some cds and stuff im buying tomorrow for ages. any suggestions, like how i can cope and what i should do?! and when i say heavy i mean really heavy as have to use night pads in the day and change them every 2 hours.
I went through the same thing. Dont worry you can still go. Just bring pads. You have to buy the larger ones bc they hold longer. Just tell them you need to change. Im shure they'll understand. And if there boys then you mught want to hold out longer. I hope I helped
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Okay, well.. this was my first time having sex. but it was like a spur of the moment thing and i didnt even realize it was going to happen. but i was like no i cant get pregnant but he said that if he didnt keep it in long enough to ejaculate that there was no chance that i could get pregnant, is this true?
Well its not a good thing to have sex just for ne thing but Imnot here to lecture you. It is true. If the male doesnt cum inside of you then its ok but youu can never be to shure. as long as he didnt get it in then you cant get pregnant.
Hope I helped
BiAnCa
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i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing?
Hey dont get yourself worked up. I am 14 and I just got mine. tust me its not something you want. But you have to be a certain weight to get it because I got mine once but itwent away for 5 months bc I was so skinny and I lost lots of blood. But if you turn 14 and its like 6 months after your b-day talk to your mom and see what she can do for you. I hope I helped
Bianca
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i need as much info as i can get on std testing like what they do to test u how long does it take. do ur parents have to know. say thing any one can tell me
thanx
blundered blonde
ok yes youur parents need to know they wont give the tests without a parent unless your over 18
I dont know how thy test you or how long it takes
Bianca
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When you sit on a guy's lap and fool around some, is it normal to feel something throbbing underneath? My friend says it happens all the time when guys get erections but I just wanted to make sure..
Yeah it is. It gets a guy hardd (horny) and trust me they cant help it. hope I helped
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I know this sounds stupid, but can you grow from drinking milk every day? Will it assist in your growing period while you are a teen? I'm medium heightwise, and I heard that milk can help.
milk does help you grow. it helps your body get stronger bones and the stronger you are the better you grow
Bianca
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Ok so i've been eating really good i eat salad alot.I don't drink soda ..only water and gatreoade how ever u spell it. And i also walk in the morning i've been doing this for about couple weeks now.but i havn't lost weight my face is really clear now.But that the onlt thing i've noticed . What i'm i doing wrong..should i do more exerciseing ?
Eating the right foods is good but its not the only thing that will help you lose weight. yes you can exersize but you can try out for a sport or you can go and play outside more. you should loook up special diets to see which one fits you best. Good luck and I hope I helped
Bianca
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There's this guy named *Jason*. For months now he's been staring at me. Sometimes I see him blushing when I look at him or stand near him. Recently, my teacher was talking to him after class. The whole class basically was listening as they talked about relationships. All of a sudden he looked at me and said "Rachel dumped me." That was his ex gf but I didn't know they had broken up. I just get the vibe that he likes me. I sent him an email at the beginning of the weekend saying I liked his haircut. He sent an email back saying "Who is this"? I'm soo afraid to tell him because it might be awkward at school. There's only 3 1/2 days of school left though. Should I tell him I wrote it or what?
Tell him how you feel. and mabye if you like him and he likes you your summer will be ooked. think you couuld be summer sweethearts. and tell him who it is Im sure girls arnt the only ones who like compliments.
bianca
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Tonight I'm going to the movies with a bunch of my friends and the guy I like happens to be coming. I want to flirt a little, get a seat near him & maybe even ask him out after. How should I do this? I'm 15 and a female.
-mae
Well try to remember no matter what happens you will have fun so dont bum youself out. Well I think you should definatly go for it ask to share popcorn or some candy and you should definatly sit by him. act like you dont understand a scene in the movie and ask him about it. then youll get to look at him and when you do look into his eyes. its kind of a signle to him. If its a scarry movie dont hesitate to (accidentally) lol cover your eyes in his jacket. Well I hope you get your guy. Have fun and hope I helped.
P.S.
Make sure hes single
Bianca
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ok.. so the other day i was masterbating (using a dildo) and like.. i started to bleed.. and i was in some pain.. is it possible that i lost my virginity to a dildo?? i mean.. i don't guess that's a problem cause it's gunna happen sooner or later, but is that what happened?
15/f/virgin
yeah I hate to tell you but you broke your cherry. I mean sometimes it just happens. hope i answered ur question
bianca
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what does please K.I.T mean??
usually it means Keep in touch. Thats the only one I know.
Bianca
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i am 14, 5 foot and i weigh like 98 pounds...
when i get my period i gain weight... i use to be 95 pouunds and it seemed like i gained some over night!
well does drinking green tea and water help you loose weight? i know green tea is suppose to speed up ur matabolism. Would it make me really feel full before eating?
Hey same here! I am 90 and on my period. actually none of that reall works. And you are going to gain no matter what bc you have to during your p because you have to make up blood for what your lossing. But if you loose too much blood then your body will tll your p to sto. Thats what happen to me and I lost my p for 5 months and I just got it back today. Hope I helped
Bianca
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I got a cyst removed from my back and got about 5 stiches in. How can I prevent getting a scar?
well you can put creme on it or wait 7 years. If the scar is deep it will take longer because your skin streches every 7 years. Hope I helped
Bianca
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Hey! Im only 13 yr's old..my mom messed up in the past and its taking college classes to get a good job, and my dad has a disease and so he cant work that often. My parents are also divorced...so My family doesnt have to much money. It sux having to much money..so I was wondering, are there ne jobs out there for 13 yr olds ( I am mature ) besides babysitting?
I do rate very high and send feedback..but i rly need help!!!
Thanx!!!
Thats a good question. But unfortunatly not very good ones. U usually have to wait until you are 14. But you van moe lawns. Bake stuff and sell it. rake yards hold fundraisers or even have a garage sale. ect. But not in a professional place. Hope I helped and good luck with your family. Just remember to stay strong and never give up. Its so nice that you are triing to help out.
Bianca
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is 30 munites riding your bike any good to keep active and to loose weight in the butt?
well I m not really shure but it probably does. But you cant just do it in one day you have to keep up with it. and it also works with every pother part of your body.
Bianca
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ok i go to the doctor soon to get my physical and im really nervous because im going to be on my period! well i think so because i just started a heavy discharge today (i think it was today) and it usually lasts abuot 10 days then i get my period the day after and im going to be on it at the doctor and when she asks when my last period was can i just say 3 weeks ago?? because the time that im going to be there my one before the one im on would be 3 weeks ago..also what other questions do they ask you about your period if your a 14 year old girl who started at the end of july 2004? please help im nervous!
If you didnt have sex theres nothing to worry about. And its ok to tell them. It all depends on what physical you have. But they ask when you first started when was your recent and your weight dob you know simple stuf. Nothing to worry aboout. Its ok I hope I helped.
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i had unprotected sex with my boy friend 3 months ago, ive had mild cramps in my tummy ever since i've taken 4 preg tests 2 possative then negative (early miscarrige)then today i was told to take another because it didnt add up it was negative.. they still think i had the miscarrige but now they think i've got Chlamydia!!!!! im so f**king scared im only 14 and cant take losing the baby and now maybe having this, they took swobs (spelling), i cryed the hole time, but i knew it was for the best i just dont know what to do, what will they do if they find out i have got it?? what are the symtoms anyways?? will i have to tell my mum and dad???
im so s**t scared?? has anyone here had it??
thanks!
omg my mom works with stuff like this. there are so many websites you can got to. BUT THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO DO IS TELL YOUR PARENTS . I know this will be hard but what if you do get worse? you can stop some stds and this might be one but in order to stop thm you have to let your rents know so the y can rush you to the doctor. And plz remember to whoever else reads this sex might feel good and condoms dont but even condoms break so the only way to stop stds is to stay abstinent until marrage trust me its woth the wait. I really hope I helped you and if you'd like you can e-mail me at queenbianca2004@yahoo.com and I can try and send you photoes of what this does and tell you some symtoms. God bless your heart.
Bianca
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i need help because im not one of those people who fall in love easily but im afraid im starting to but the problems are is one im afraid to get hurt and 2 well i always have to fall for the ones i cant have and that hurts even more so any advice please
Well you might think you cant have them but Im shure you can. First off, dont tell yourself you cant have them. You are you and if they dont like you for that its there problem. But some ways you can try to get their attention it to try new things. do your hair diffrent. put on a little blush and sparkling lip gloss. you know stuff thy might notice. But dont try to act diffrent or dress to dirrfent because then they'll thinkk your easy and it will be obvuious. Try hanging and getting to know them more to see if its whatyour really intrested in.
About love, its not really a thing you can fall in and out of. like you can love your boyfriend today but not tomorrow. thats not love. love is a passion when you know that you want to stay with that persin. So I wouldnt call your situations love. But no matter what you will always end up getting hurt one way or another so your going to just have to let it go and try to move on. Dont think about getting hurt think about all the fun to look foward to. Well I really hope I helped
Bianca
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