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Q: Why does it hurt more to take out a tampon when it hasn't soaked up enough blood?? sorry if that sounds really stupid..

hun that is not a stupid question and the answer is the tampon is still stiff and needs blood to slide right out of you. So of course it will hurt more and i hope i helped.

-Katie
....If you need anything else then just drop a letter in my mail box.

Q: how do you give a hickey?

how do you give a hickey you ask... well you kiss the others neck or where ever you want to give them a hickey and you kinda suck and then there is your hickey!

-Katie
....If you need anything else just drop a letter in my mail box!

Q: how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

Well you really don't know your in love because love is blind and you really can't tell if YOU are in love but your friends and loved ones probably can if you keep talking about him and everytime you see him your afraid to say something stupid around him! That is love and it feels GREAT! Like a rollercoaster your heart feels so happy and excited and you have good feelings about him ALL the time! That is love and i think you should tell him because (here is a poem!) if you love someone tell them because hearts are broken but words that are unspoken! So tell him you love him!

-Katie
....If you need anything else just write me a letter and drop it in my mail box!

Q: hey, its princess32 again.. you said if i had anymore questions to mail them into your box. thanks so much for that and id love to talk to you more about it so when you get this jus write me back with a AOL or AIM sn... mine is
xO b e c k 32 y... love the answer and if you ever need me jus do the same...

xox becky

Okay well my aim doesn't work right now and you can email me at my email address which is katelynmmardis@yahoo.com i never get emails so you can email me anytime! i hope to hear from you soon!

-Katie

Q: I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?!

Well if you really love him then go for it and that is if you trust him. Maybe your not ready to have sex yet and that is okay just talk things over with your boyfriend and maybe you will feel better about the fact of sex.

....if you need anything else just drop a letter in my mail box!

-Katie

I hope everything goes okay with you and your boyfriend.

Q: WHAT IS IT WITH ALL THESE GIRLS CONCERD OF BEING FAT!!! ....103....120!!! those are all really good for your height and age!!! soo stop worrying were still kids!! live it up!! eat icecream for breakfeast!!!! make milkshakes for dinner!!! Dance the night away!! have a fun time and be a kid!!! heheeh ( im not saying DONT watch your weight b/c you should..just dont let it worry you sooo much!!!)AM I right Ladies?

mwa

LExy

Yeah you are right Lexy i have been asked by many on how you lose pounds and i tell them but come on some of you girls are perfect the way you are and you shouldn't worry about your weight just eat right and that is all to it!

-Katie

Q: what are some good ways to loose a few?

umm... exersice and eat smart! That is all to it. Walk like a few times a week and just don't go on that starving deit because it doesn't help much! i hope everything goes okay for you!

....if you need anything else just drop a letter in my mail box!

-Katie

Q: My boyfriend just recently broke up with me and I've been so heartbroken, but to make it all worse I find out he's hooking back up with one of his ex's.. but he said the reason he broke up with me ebcause he was sick of me being so obsessive over him! .. I think iwas kinda obsessed.. but he didnt have to break up with me.. he could o f just asked me to stop! maybe he just wants fucking katie.. ARGG! i am sick of dating.. but I met someone at six flags so I'm happyish.. he was hott.. and we had fun .. but ti was cool... well i duno wut to do I am so hurt right now I am starting to get pissed off and I have to go cu my frined is takin me to six flags yay!

- signed unhappyish

Okay well i can tell that your problem is that you are heart broken and that is okay. The only way to get over your EX is to have fun with this other guy and also just don't have fun with this guy to make your EX jealous because that would be stepping down to his level like he broke up with you because of the Katie girl. She probably doesn't have anything you don't have and you will find someone better that can talk to you about your obbesession and not go all dramatic about you LOVING him so much!

....if you need anything else just drop a letter in my mail box!

-Katie

Oh and have fun at 6flags!!

Q: I need a new screenname... but i dont want anything to bouncy... alot of itmes my screen names are kinda depressing... my screenname right now is x2lostwithoutyou my name is Kati and im 13...

lilmissK13 or MiSsThAnG13 mine is blondepreppy7303

....If you need anything else just drop a letter in my mail box!

-Katie

Q: My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?

Yes he will be able to tell... but hun just be completly honest with him and remember honesty is the best thing. He will probably enjoy the sex much better if he knows you have done it before like he did.

....If you need anything else just drop a letter in my mail box!

-Katie

Q: okaie...well i had a question on here b4..about this guy named Miguel..and well he called me 2dae..and was really nice!!..he sed he was gonna buy me a Tigger doll..(my fave!)..and its for a birthdae present..bkuz my b-dae was yesterdae..and well wen he called..he had asked me 2 go 2 6Flagz wit him and his sis this weekend...then my sis came home..wit my digital camera..can hes ugly!!..and he is supposed 2 call me back 2marroe..2 c if i can go 2 6flagz or not..ohh yeah!..his is a LIL PERSON..and i am kinda scared of them!!..please help me!!...my sis saes not 2 b mean and rude 2 him and it duznt hurt if i am just friends wit hi..but man! i dono wut 2 do...HELP ME KAIE?!

Okay just calm down first and take a deep breath! Okay if you really don't want to go to 6flags with him then just tell him that your mom or dad said you have something else to do that day and you can't go and you very sorry. But Also say maybe some other time we could get together and just say it in the nicest way that you can't go to day! That is all to it!

-Katie

Q: I am 14 and i havent started my period. I have been have this white stuff come out for about a year now and sometimes very heavily. Is there something wrong with me? I thought I would of started my period by now..

The blood is a sign of your period is coming just wipe yourself really good and soon you will be starting your period because the discharge is a sign of your period coming!

-katie

Q: Today when i went to the bathroom i noticed that i had ALOT of discharge in my underwear what could it be? should i do anything about it?

You might be starting your period soon.

Q: Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you!

Ashlee, Alexandera, Taylor, Shawn, Orlando, Brad, and there are more i have like Venessa and i hope that helps you!

-Katie

Q: Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!

Just ask him, "would you ever dump me for someone else?" that is all you have to do and if he really loves you he will answer your question!

-katie

Q: i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!

What you need to do is write down or figure out who you like more, your boyfriend or this other guy and who you want to be with more...? that is the only thing to it and probably the only way.

-Katie

Q: i totally agree with what you were saying but its like i cant even do
that because not talking to him and not seeing him and not dating him is
what holds me back from being me... and in a way im not free i cant be
free hes still got me in his grip by me not seeing him and hes breaking
my heart 1 million times more when i dont see him and dont date him...
and once i do call him and get in touch with him im never gonna be able
to let go of that im never gonna be able to hang up... like im forever
held by him... even if i saw him everyday i would love him.... i would
be devastated idk whats worse not seeing him or if i saw him with someone else idk what to do anymore.... :(
Kati

Well Kati sweetie just try to call him and i was in your space before and it broke my heart seeing my ex boyfriend with another girl but what your going to have to do is talk to him and i bet you he is hurting as much as you are right now even if he doesn't say it but he is!

-Katie

Q: do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all

Well for me i like a guy that can pamper me and loves to cuddle so i guess i like a guy to be sensitive but not to much!

Q: I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?

He definatly likes you, and if he flirts with you like that (well that is called showing off for you) he was being nice but he likes you!

-Katie

Q: okay... a year ago today this kid *ill just say his name is andy... asked me out. And today i saw him for the first time this summer.
As soon as i saw him, its like i fell in love all over again. Now, i cant stop thinking about him. I miss him so much. Hes hurt me before, but i think hes changed, cause online, hes been wicked nice and stuff. Today, when i saw him, (it was at a sailing regatta/cookout thing) he kept looking at me, and we made big eye-contact. And every time i saw him, hed be looking over at where i was sitting. Im not sure how he feels tho...i just want to know if he thinks about me as much as i do him... i dont know what to do? Do i tell him i have feelings again? Help? im so afraid he'l think im weird if i say something.. thanks

~ CORI ~ xox

Sweetie i think you should tell him how you feel because beleive me he will not open his heart and spill out everything about you unless you tell him! If you asked me i think he has the hots for again by the way he looks at you and stuff like that! Just be open with him and you will get the same thing from him most likely!

-Katie

bio

I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.

ABC's about ME!

Age: 15
Birthday: 01/16
Color: Red and Pink
Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
Eyes: baby blue
Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
Intrests: sexy boys, cheerleading, and PARTIES
Joys in Life: see above
Kisses or Hugs?: X's and O's
Love Life: Taken and happy
Music: country, rap, r&b and other
Name: ::*::*:Katelyn:*::*::
Obsession: skaters, music, fire, shopping (not in that order)
Preference: Guys
Question: Why label me when you dont have a label yourself?
Role Model: Paris Hilton
School: MP
Talent: erm...I'll get back to you on that one...
Uniqueness: I love to stand out in the crowd...so i'll try anything once
Very Best Friends: Madeline, Kelsey, Cassie, Meagan, Michel, Brittany, Jasmine, Kayla, Jessica, Heidi, and Amanda
Worst Thing I've Done: ...well, there was this one time...
Xtra Sturf 'Bout Me: I'm 5'4 I love to party and when your with me you will have a REALLL great time!
Yum-Yumz in Mah Tum-Tum: I love CHOCOLATE, smoothies, and strawberries! I really LOVE Chocoalte covered strawberries
Zodiac Sign: Capircorn