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how do you get your boyfriend to stop cutting..? please help me..=( (link)
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He might be going through and identity crisis try talking to him, lie if you have to say I heard that the blade does something to you once in your skin make it up. Do anything for him to stop. Let him see a doctor or psycatrist but don't leave him...good luck.
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I have long straight hair and I part it on the side and I want to get sweeping bangs. I want them short enough to be able to leave them out when I put the rest of my hair up.. but I don't want them to get in my eyes and be annoying. So how long should they be? (link)
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Ask your stylist or barber but don't grow them too long. Try taking picture of your hair and edit it with Photo Op, by the length or hair you want....good luck!
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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks
signed
worried friend (link)
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Dear worried friend,
Your friends really lucky to have you look after her like that. You need to sit down and have a long nice talk. Tell her how you feel. If she's a real friend she'll listen to you but maybe not right away it will take some time. Don't give up hope on her...hope this held.
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I KNOW THIS IS LONG.. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND ILL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.. I PROMISE!!
Well i have these two friends... nd lets say their names are Bob and Rob.. well ive been good friends with bob longer than i have with Rob.. Both Rob and Bob are a lil chunky.. but they're not Fat.. So me Rob and Bob became a group this year.. and ive always felt like i fit in until one day rob was me and bob are fat.. nd we hate pool partys.. and we have something against skinny people cauz we're jealous of them.. so i was like you guys aren't fat.. nd since im like a twig,.. i got offended and i was like well now im gonna feel uncomfortable in the pool with you guys since we're gonna be in bathing suits.. and rob didn't answer.. so since bob is my best friend i decided to talk to her about it.. so i told her how i felt.. and im like its not like you guys excercise or try to loose weight.. so then we straightened it out... but rob and bob want to go shopping together and rob doesn't wanna invite me cauz im skinny.. i mean i understand how they feel but now i feel like rob feels more comfortable around bob and i feel like rob and bob are friends and im not part of the group anymore.. i mean i wouldn't consider rob my best friend... cauz she's not my type of person.. nd now bob is like turning into rob.. like they use the same font colors and fonts on AIM and bob started listening to rock just like rob.. and now whenever we're together and we talk about clothes.. bobs like Lisa your such a twig you can fit into abercrombie.. and the way she says it, it hurts my feelings.. so like rob has bob brain washed practically and i hate the way she's acting now like all punk and into rock or watever and like how she's saying .. i hate you, your so skinny.. its not my fault im skinny.. im a runner.. and ive been skinny all my life cauz its in my genes and ive been doing sports since i was like 2.. so i dunno wat to do.. please help (link)
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Talk to them friendship grows stronger by talking. And if they were your friends they'd listen and work things out. Ps/ nest time can u use names like bert and ernie i was so confused! haha good luck.
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18/M About 6 months ago i was burned bigtime by a girl that i liked. In retrospect i went overboard with planing out every miniscule detail. Now a new girl has found her way into my life. She likes the same things as me and shares the same musical interest, BUT the problem is that i am also good friends with her parents and im not sure if they would let her date yet. What would be a good way to get the parents approval. (The parents own a local coffee shop that I frequent) (link)
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Try meeting them trough coffee or dinner. Bring a dish u made. Tell them about yourself be open and honest. If you really like her then give it a try. What have you go to lose and if the parent don't like you or the fact that you two wanna go out then why not stay as friends. Whatever you do take it slow. Good luck.
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I will be freshman this year. And I'm so scared and nervous. My curent friends are like family, but I can't really be myserlf around them. They are too much into guys. But I've been through alot with them in middle school. And I don't really have any other close friends. So what should I do? Should I find new friends, or stick with the ones I got? (link)
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I went throught the exact same feelings last year. Don't worry you'll make a ton of new friends. On my first day of school, people from my old school met up and we hung around. Then we later started meeting knew people. I hada couple of friends in my classes from previous years but making new ones was kinda hard. Well I met one of my bestest friends at lunch. Open up get to know people. Get involve, join a sport and clubs. Be social. And reeber...make new friends but keep the old one is silver and the other is gold!
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I hate myself. Does anyone have any ideas to stop a persons perceptions of things, or path of thinking change? I dont beleive in any kind of religion and i beleive that there is no reason to anything and that life and existance in general is just so pointless. If people live to be happy and content, yet are mainly overcome by other stronger emotions such as pain and anger what is the point of living? there is no afterlife its just nothing. why be afraid of something you wont be aware of. why bother searching for peace of mind which you already know you will never get. each and everyone of us are unique so no one is. no one will remember me when i die because i have had no impact upon anyone. i have achieved nothing and have had nothing able to be achieved because of how many billions of people in the world that are better then me. nothing has meaning me running around in an endless circle compared to going to school and learning are of about the same value. .. should i get help? (link)
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Ok what I can understand that either you have had a n identity lost and I'm not talking about credit cards things but a real one. Yoiu feel lost, alone, no point of living. Try seeing a doctor they have medication for this or if you don't wanna do drugs see a psycatrist and talk about it. Writing things or talking it to some one always help.
If this isn't the case then Ibelieve somewhere in your life maybe more recently something has happened a death perhaps? or something relatively close. You can't keep this all in yourself. Please talk to someone or at least write it down. If you don't believe in a god that's ok. Just talk like your talking to yourself and if there is a God he will hear you. Don't give up faith...Good Luck.
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a few months ago i gave this one guy head. and my throat felt weird for about a week and a half after. (by the way, it was my 1st time. in case that makes a difference.)
but i know that your throat hurting is a sign of gonorrhea... and i also know that gonorrhea causes arthritis... or leads to it. or whatever.
and my knuckles are starting to hurt.
but the thing is, i'm starting to think this is all in my head...
i know this doesn't make much sense... but if you have any advice, please tell me. (link)
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I really think you should consult with a doctor because no one knows for sure except a doctor.
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Hey, im on a diet, but i have no idea what foods to eat.
I kno veggies and fruits and no white bread.
But like for actual meals, what should I eat?
I have to make a grocery list for my mom so it would really help to have this info asap. Thanks will rate high. (link)
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Wheat bread not White...white has chemicals in it. For meals try tuna or any fish, low carb, a few potatoes, meat with trimmings. Ok for something delicious and nutricious try this...
Get some chicken and broil it and season it with some salt a little soy sauce and pepper, steam cooked veggies like broccili, carrots, cauliflowers, peas, corn as a side dish. As for dessert try frozen yougurts or sorbets. Good Luck!
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Hey hey hey... thanks ahead of time. I will rate and leave feedback if it's wanted, but anyways- i dyed my hair about two weeks ago and I absolutely HATE the color of it. I thought that I heard of something called Stripping... which is where you get your hair color stripped and it will go back to your natural color. Is this something real and is it bad for your hair, how much does it cost? Thanks (link)
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Yeah my friend and I did our hair last year before school started. I got mine cut and she dyed and styled it. She went from a blonde to black. Strippping color costs as much as dying it. But she decided to let it fade by laying it out while tanning. Sun changes your hair color usually fading it...I went from black to a brunette. Don't use any color dye for another month cause if you dye your hair too mcuh it falls off. Good Luck.
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Hello im 13 and I got this HUGE crush on my step-dads friends son who came to TX for vacation. Hes 16 but were only 3 years apart when you think about it. It seems really far away now. Anyways he stayed over for a week and a half. We were hanging out watching TV, fishing, playing with the dogs thats stuff. And he just went back up to Cali. I fell in love with him and I cannot get him off my mind. I dream about him, think about him like a million times a day, ask my step-dad constantly when he'll visit again. Im in MAD love and I have no clue what to do.
How do I get him off my mind?
-Jessica (link)
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To get him off your mind you can't! It's hard getting over a crush. The best you can do is do something you like hanging out with your friends or talk about to a friend...Good Luck!
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I have no freedom. I am never allowed to go over to friends houses, unless I've known that friend for a really long time and my mom knows their parents real good. They never let me go to birthday parties and they refuse to let me even go near a water park even in the day time because they are soooo "dangerous." I have to read an hour a day too. Please don't tell me to talk to them calmly about it. I already tried, but my mom is so mean and hurtful. What can I do? (link)
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Um...comprimise or have your friends over for dinner so your parents can get to know them better. Talk ot your friends parents and arrange something...Good luck.
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For those girls who go to the tanning bed, do you recommend any good face accelarators? (Lotion products that can make your face tan faster.) And if so, what's the normal price range on it? Thank you. (link)
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I have some of those instant tanning stuff mainly for your legs. Prices vary if you by it from a discount drug store or a make-up brand like lancome, channel, estes lauder...etc. Some work but you also gotta be careful from allergic reactions. Some can turn you into a zit-head. Fake orange tans are results of cheaper products. A good price bronzer is probably $30 depending on size.
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sometimes i seriously just cant sleep...is it bad for an almost 15 yr old to use sleeping pills?
any suggestions on what type (if its not bad)? (link)
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I take sleeping pills sometimes and they can become addicting so becareful. No taking sleeping pills at your age isn't bad its help for you to go to sleep. You began to feel drowsy about 30 mins- 1 hour later. As for brand that's something you need to ask a doctor because different branes treat different people depending on age, weight, height....etc. hope that helped.
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ok if someone is pregnent how soon would morning sickness kick in? and do all women get morning sickkness? do most women get morning sickness by the time they are 2 weeks pregnent? (link)
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1> Everyone's different some women's monring sickness is so bad they can't even leave the room. Some don't have it or they're not as bad. It depends on the person.
2>Morning sickness starts at almost anytime
after a couple of months.
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I just got proactive, and i was wondering how long it takes for it to real noticably start working, and if it works as well as the infomercials say. Also, could only people that have actually used this answer to this or know someone who used and you saw a difference (link)
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I've never used proactive but I've seen it on TV and some of my friends have it. To be honest she looked lyk zits had colonized every skin cell she had on her face but now she only gets one or two once a while. She says it works pricey but it works.
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX (link)
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Age is just a number if you really like him it shouldn't matter. Don't worry about what others might,would,could,should or can thik. If you like him then stay with him...good luck.
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Alright so, my Mom is alright. She buys me everything and anything I want. She lets me go anywhere. I want to get my belly button pierced and she's making me wait, but that's about it. Anyway. She nags me like a normal Mom and whatever. But she goes on and on. Like she just doesn't shut up. Sometimes she'll explain to me step by step how to do something, like she'll tell me how to feed the dog. HELLO. I know how to feed a dog, just tell me to actually DO IT. And she talks really slow on purpose, I think she just likes to hear herself talk. She's the most organized person in the world and I'm the most unorganized person in the world so we don't mesh. She yells at me for things all the time that are stupid. I tried explaining to her that it bothers me. But she just gets upset and yells at me even more. I told my Dad and my Grandparents and they all tried talking to her but nothing seems to work. I'm not perfect, and I don't expect her never to yell at me again or anything but she annoys me sooo much. What do I do? (link)
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Yes I agree parents can misunderstand there children from time to time. But maybe she bothers and talks to you slow and alot because she wants to spend more time with you. Try setting a day once a month for you and your mom to hang out. Get to know her better. Good Luck.
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hey! i am having a birthday there will be boys and girls, i don't wear skirts and i want something casual! any ideas (link)
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camis are in
sequence is a def
hm...try form fittin blakc pants a girl always has to have a nice pair of black pants
and wedge sandals
scarf belts
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Alright, first some background info. Im 16 and im a virgin, never done anything sexual with a guy. Ok now..my period is a week late for some reason and my mom is freaking out and asking me if ive gotten it like every 2 or 3 hours. Recently i have really cut back on like really fatty food, ive started running about a mile and half 2 or 3 times a week, and i started a job..which is a bit stressfull at times. Those things can make it come late right? Ive also felt like ive been going to get it, sore boobs, wicked bad cramps, headache that wont go away no matter if i take tylenol or not. I want to stop freaking out...so if you guy know anything that can help me out or at least help me chill my mom out..that would be fabulous. Thanks in advance. (link)
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stressfull
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