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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
♥BLAiR

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hi im 13 and i bought this one thong and i havent worn it yet because if i wear it it will have to be washed and if it gets washed my mom will see it and if she does i think i will bein trouble because i dont know if my mom is alright with me wearing thongs. Everyone wears them in my school but idk if my mom will be alright with it and im afraid to ask her. What can i do to wear one without getting in trouble?

its just a different type of panties...i dont think there would be a problem...just say you dont want a panty line.
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what does this quote i thOuGht WhUt diD A LiL jEALOuSy EvER dO? bUt gUEsS WUt it [r U i N E d] mE N yOU mean?

hmmm the way i see it is maybe one of the partners got jealous and it tore them apart.
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sorry if this is long but i really need help.

ok im 14 and i will be 15 september 13. this guy name tyler is 12 and will be 13 september 1. he is goin to 8th and im goin to 9th. he doesnt hang out with 12 year olds, he looks and hangs out with 14 and 15 year olds. we are really good friends, and tuesday night he asked me out but i said no. i like him, but i am scared to go out wtih him. i mean if we break up, then it will be weird. and he isnt really cute. but i like him alot. last night he got mad at me because he thought that i was gonna go out with this other guy, but im not! and then his mom told him to get off the phone and he told me he would call me back at 1 and he never did. he hasnt called or got online today either. i think hes still mad at me and i dont know what to do. i told him i didnt like the other guy but i dont think he believed me. what should i do?? should i go out with him if he asks me again? some people say i should and some people say heck no. i have no idea what to do!

i dont think age should matter...especially in this case...but just tell him you dont want to ruin the friendship...or tell him you like him and you will only go out with him on that one condition.
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I'm 13 years old. I recently became pen pals with a guy my age who lives in England, I live in the US. I really like him, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. If he doesn't feel the same way, I don't want to chance our friendship. What do I do?

well theres not much that can happen other then him saying he doesnt like you...but you are in a different country! so i dont think it would matter...
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does anyone kno any good background websites for my column page? thank u and i rate VERRRRRYY high hahah

gah my power went out when i was trying to answer this question...
have u tried the ones that they give you?
also try google. i know yesterday i wanted polka dots and i typed in "polka dots" and then clicked images and it gave me all sorts of dots! lol. so try that.
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ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?

5th or 6th grade...but i dont think REALLY serious kinda stuff till 7th or so.
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I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond.

yes its normal, dont worry
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Hey! I was just wondering if anyone new what "grinding" means? Is it where you get on a guy n kind of dry hump him? Please answer as soon as possible! thanNks

yeah pretty much except its when you are dancing most likely.
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Hey I'm stuck in my house all day (long story save your ramblings on anything) and I need easy food to make that is good. Not mac & cheese and no pb&j. Thanks in advance.
-Don't call me lazy or anything like that cause I'll rate you a 1-
I rate 5's for good answers!

ohh i think i answered this. there are a lot of frozen foods that you can just microwave
-buffalo stye chicken strips(made by tyson)
-pizza rolls
-hot pockets
-taquitos
-frozen pizza
-ramen noodles
uhmm thats all i can think of.
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well I have been on discharge for like what, since September and I still have not started my period. My mom started in 9th and my two older sisters started when they were in 7th grade. I am going into eighth and still have not. Do you think maybe I am not healthy down there or like something is wrong with me? Please help!!!!!

dont worry, some girls follow the other females some dont, but getting discharge....if its clear and doesnt smell then its a good sign that you might. however if its colored and smelly then u might have a yeast infection and should get it checked out.
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I'm thinking about getting side swept bangs. All of you that have them, are there disadvantages? Does it get in your face, and will it take quite a long time to grow out? I also do track, so will it annoy me when I'm running? THanks

i have side swept bangs and i play lacrosse and dance...i just have to pin them back.
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Hi

I need to have a blood test done just as a precaution for STDS to test for HIV, Hepatisis,etc..which I am sure I don't have anyways..but the DR just wants me to have it all done.. ANYWAYS...if I only smoked a couple joints between 4 of us and I only do weed a couple times a month probably...just on a weekend sometimes...will it show up if they test me for HIV,etc? How long should I wait? Or should I just go anyways? The last time I done it was 2 days ago. I am going to the hospital early next week...
I don't want any lectures from people about doing weed please :) just an answer to my question if you have any input.

Thanks

hmmm im not sure how long it stays...i wouldnt know because i dont do it but i have friends that do...just make sure you drink a LOT of water...lol i remember them coming in with the 1 litre soda bottles filled with water. sorry hope i helped!
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where can i find the No Boundaries brand for back to school supplies like binders and book covers ect. Does anyone know a store or a site?

WALLY WORLD!!! aka. wal-mart! haha
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okay, so i can figure out what this says.

YO AMOR USTED

ive tried to translate it, but it doesnt work. so i was wondering if anyone could find out, and let me know. I RATE HIGH!

i love you...but to an adult...but thats not how it would REALLY be worded in spanish i dont think.

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Ok you've probably heard this trillions of times but i cant find any questions in the advice section about this...

What execercises can help relieve the pain.. this is my third period and it really hurts...

I'll rate well..

well maybe some crunches...i dont know but if u stay active they will lessen i have come to find out.

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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do?

well if you love him so much you need to respect his decision...think of it this way...what if HE was the one that WANTED to have sex with YOU and YOU wanted to wait? you would want him to respect you and stay with you right? im kinda in the same boat...my boyfriend wants to have sex but i want to wait and i love that he respects my decision.

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im only 13/f and i have had 3 boyfriends but never done anything more than hold hands and hug?? i havent even gotten my first kiss! is there some way i can get it soon or do i just have to wait?? i rate high!

hey hun dont rush anything...wouldnt u rather it be with someone special and mean a lot then someone not that great? just wait hun your time will come.
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School is coming up quickly and i need help with some clothes to wear and makeup. i need to get some hot clothes but not to exspensive. Also, what about make-up. i need something that will bounce make people look at me u know. Also for hair my hair what do u suggest. pleassse repile.
Thanz

Tamia

for makeup dear i cant help you there because the most i ever wear is eyeliner and eyeshadow...but i do know that silver eyeshadow(maybelline)looks good on anyone pretty much. for clothes...go to marshalls or ross or burkes outlet if you have one near you...because they have namebrand clothes for cheap...uhmm foleys too they have pretty good sales...and mervyns! hmmm for your hair...half up half down...and maybe leave a little out in the front.

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What r some good websites (that rnt xanga sites) where you can get some good quotes for yur AIM profile?

www.firehotquotes.com

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Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH

just when you are on the phone with him or something and you are about to hang up just say i love you, then bye.
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