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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
*AGE*---16~*~
*SEX*---YES PLEASE!--LOL JUS MESSIN IMMA GRL~*~
*HOMETOWN*---L-TOWN~*~HOLLA AT CHA GRL~*~
*SCHOOL*---LHS GO REDSKINS!!:)~*~
*GRADE*---10TH~*~
*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
*HAIR*---BROWN/BLONDE~*~
*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
*FAV QUOTE*---I SMOKE WEED 2 4-GET MY DRINKING PROBLEM---LOL!~*~
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WEL YALL I'M HERE 4 N E BODY WHO NEEDS ADVICE OR JUST TALK!!! I REALLY BEEN THRU SUM SHIT IN MY LIFE!!! MY MOM IS IN JAIL N SHE IS A MAJOR CRAK HED N SO IS MY DAD...I BEEN IN JAIL/JUVI MYSELF LIKE 4 TIMES.... BEEN IN several FIGHTS N GOT JUMPED PLENTY OH TIMES N HAD MY FAIR SHARE OH ASS WOOPPINS!!! TRUST ME, WHERE I COME FROM, NIGAS N BITCHES dont PLAY!!!
YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

advice

Does a guys height affect their penis size ? If so , what do you think a 175+ cm tall guys penis size is ? Btw , i'm just curious , and i'm a girl .

most of the time it doesnt matter! if ya wanna no so bad jus ask the guy he'll probly lie cuz guys like 2 do that (a lot)...

--------btw if he braggs bout it a lot then he's probly not 2 "big"!!!

jessica

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i like this girl who is at my school. But she is more popular than i am. what do i do to get her to notice me iv'e tried everything

if she has not noticed u by now then find some-1 who will!!she isnt wrth wasten

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Alright ive had sex before but its been 9 months ive been fingered like 4 tymes since then tho.. im scared to do it agen did my cherry grow bak? am i going to bleed again like the 1st tyme? is it going to hurt as bad? please help beacuse i really want to do it again im just nervous beacuse its been so long please answer if you can ASAP!!

NO U SHOULDNT BLEED AGAIN AND IT SHOULDNT HURT....ENJOY

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I like my best friend....
He doesnt kno, but im crazy about him.
Wat should i do?

HELLO TELL HIM IF HE'S UR BEST FRIEND THEN HE MAY LIKE U 2.

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Ok, for all the people who answered the question about the guy writing his number in my year book, when I call him what should I say?

WELL HE GAVE U HIS #, SO CALL & TELL HIM U JUST REMEMBERED IT. THEN SEE WHAT KIND OF MOVIES HE LIKES AND TELL HIM U LIKE THE SAME KINDS AND MAY-B HE'LL ASK U!

~*JESSICA*~

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im too shy to ask a girl out what always happens is that i have my eye on one but i can't get the nerve to ask her out then some other guy takes her what do i do

LOOK...GO AHEAD AND MAKE YO MOVE BOY..IF U GO THRU LIFE & DONT GO AFTA THE "THINGS" U WANT THEN WHERE YA GONNA GET...GO GET 'ER!!!

-JESSICA-

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i can't kiss my boyfriend. i said i wanted to and he said he wanted to and we do but we're both too shy. what do i do????

GO AND DO IT....IT'LL SHOW HIM U REALLY LIKE HIM AND ARE'NT AFRAID OF NOTHIN

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i really REALLY like my boyfriend. we are totally in love. but there's this guy in my class who i get on kinda well with and i cant help flirting with him and he flirts back. i dont think i fancy him but theres something there. i dont wanna dump my boyf i like him too much but i feel uncomfortable around the other guy cause i know i shouldnt be flirting. i really like them both but i like my boyf more what do i do?

OMG.. STOP FLIRTING W/ THAT OTHER GUY OR UR GONNA LOOSE YA BOY......IF U FEEL WEIRD AROUND HIM HELLO DONT GO AROUND HIM......

JESSICA

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I've been friends w/ this one guy since I was in the 4th grade (he was in the 3rd grade). We got really close over the summer, and his friend told me that he likes me. I kinda figured it out in my own though, cuz he always tried to be alone w/ me & stuff. Lately, we've been hanging out a lot. He's been over everyday this week so far. We just talk about really random stuff, but I somehow think that he still might like me. I don't really like him like that, bcuz I like 2 of his friends. It's really weird. What should I do?

JUS TELL HIM UR NOT REALLY INTO HIM..LIKE THAT..
OR TELL HIM THAT U DONT WANNA MESSUP THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP U 2 HAVE........

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My best guy friend of 3 years asked me something really weird last week and I just can't stop forgetting it. We were hanging out w/ his friend, and we somehow started talking about the fact that a guy in my math class was looking down my shirt. Then my guy friend told me to bend over, jokingly. I was like "only if you pay me" sarcastically. Then he was like "I'll give you $6 if you give me a lapdance!!!!" And then his friend offered to give me $10 for one. I refused, of course, cuz that's just gross. I still can't get over that, though. I feel really disrespected. What should I do about it?

DONT WORRY BOUT IT IF U NO THEY WERE JUS KIDDEN THEY HELLO THERES UR ANSWER...LOL.

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okay i have liked this guy for 2 years! but he likes my best friend...and they went out when i liked him! then my other best friend goes out with him!! and it seems like he doesnt even know im there i have talked to him and told him i love him and stuff and i say well it doesnt matter u will never go out with me n e ways! and he always says u dont know that dont think negative! what kind of signs are these what can i do to get him to feel a lil more about me? i really love this guy!

if 1 of my best friends went out w/ a guy that i had that much passion 4 i would totally freak. real friends dont do that crap. unless they didnt no u liked or loved him then i would find some new friends.....if the guy does like u the he probly went out w/ ur friends jus 2 get closer 2 u. u gotta remember guys are stupid when it comes 2 liken a grl.......hope i could hlp u :)

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I liked this one guy for a little over a year. I was at a dance on Friday & was having fun, but then a slow song came on & he went & danced with this girl that I really dislike. As he was dancing w/ her, he kept smiling at me and staring at me. After that, I was dancing w/ a few of my friends, and he kept moving around so that he could see me. Then he went off during another slow song and danced with a total slut. He stared at me during that one, too. I'm really confused. What does it all mean?

omg guys r sososososo stupid... he totally likes u. dont wry bout what he told ur friend.he told her that so he wouldnt get mbarrased.chill out and he'll eventually come 2 his sences and go 4 u.....

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im nearly 17 and when me and my gf go to have sex
my penis can't stay hard for a long period and it takes a couple of minutes for me to get hard again
is this normal?

well i have only been w/ 1 guy & he stayed hard the whole time so im guessing its probly not normal but im not totally sure.

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Do girls generally stop growing taller after they get their period ?

no mostly grls stop growin 2-3 years after.

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What does it mean if a girl's cherry pops?

it means a grl lost her virginity

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sometimes i am in the mood but don't have an orgasm what is wrong with me. what is there that i can try to see if somthings work.

if ur w/ a guy they might need 2 try a diff spot the same things get old after a while.....

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I only started my periods abouit a year ago, but recently they've been really heavy (like MASSES of blood), and I feel faint sometimes. Is it normal to be like this or is there something wrong with me? by the way, I'm 14. Please answer asap because I'm really worried

4 most grls its not normal 2 loose so much blood but it also depends on ur weight but u need 2 go to the doctor jus in case cuz u could be animic and thats really really bad so GO 2 THE DOCTOR.

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So I know this sounds alot like my first question but I still need more advice. The guy that I am kinda going out with (lets call him blurb) was a senior in my high school when I was freshman. Now I am going into 10th grade and Blurb is going to college. He will be leaving in August and although he is only going 2-3 hours away I know that we won't get a chance to see eachother a lot. Although we have discussed this he maintains that when I am a senior in high school (the age that my mom said we could offically date) he will come back for me. He says he's going to come and visit me and that we're going to keep in touch but I know it's going to be hard. My biggest issue is not what I am going to do, but what he is going to do. I want him to be able to experience college fully and I think if he still thinks about me and worries about coming back to me, he won't have as much fun as he would otherwise. Because I want him to have the best experience possible, should i let him go entirely even though I love him?

look that is a real tough ?....U need 2 do what ur heart tells u 2 do.if u think he'll be faithfull then dont let him go..

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so far i've nly been fingered a few times... but i'm usaulyl really nervous when it comes to it.. i'm jsut thinking of basically him sticking his finger there and everything i dont want to be nervous but sometimes i can't help it. what can i dO?

sweetie then why r u doin it if ur not totally cool w/ it DONT do it

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i have a friend he is jsut like my brotehr now. we did go out for like 3 months. but we broke up. even though rite after we broke up we still kept on talking jsut like awesome friends. he's had smoeting for me. he's my best guy friend, and i love him a lot. but i know i would never be able to do anything wiht him. but sometimes he "jokes" around that we ould do somethihg. he cares about me and he compliments me . but i really odnt know waht to do. sometimes it jsut freaks me out. what should i do?

yea i feel u grl im goin through the same thing & its hard the best advice i can give u is 2 find out if he is 4 real or not.

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